(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 351

Tbh I hate Melissa Joan Heart which bums me out cause Drive Me Crazy is a flawless movie. I'd rather hear Adrien rant about straws.

 

Ever since Entourage, I've had nothing but disdain for Adrien Grenier.

 

MJH in sabrina the teenage witch may have been the first time i had a crush on anyone

 

Omg the amount of women I know who let men get away with everything because "it's a man thing" is so disheartening. No. It's not a man thing. They're socialized to be entitled and think they can put in as little effort as possible and still get what they want. Hold them accountable. They are grown men not lil babies u need to coddle. I don't blame the women cause obv we're conditioned as well and I've totally been there before with accepting entitlement bs, but it's hard to watch friends put up with it because "he's just a man." Nooooo.

 

Maybe perhaps I found someone I might start talking to.

Edit: he seems interested. I'm interested. Let's hope this works out this time around

 

Could the girl have been blind? When i was in college I was friends with a girl who was blind and she'd ask me to read to her at odd times.

 

So my gf ended up apologizing to me about snooping through my computer (again) and is going to start getting professional help for her anxiety and working through her insecurities. I ended up deleting the person from facebook and also deactivated my facebook. Not really sure what is going to happen from here; we were planning on moving in with each other this year, but I don't feel comfortable with those plans now.

 

I hate that I'm bad with relationships. Every time I start talking and getting to know a guy I close myself off. I don't see myself as someone guys would want to be with and that they deserve better. It's hard for me to vision "this guy wants to be with me". A lot of them don't want to be patient and accepting and it's hard for me to put in the effort when it's not going to last.

 

Why did you delete the person and disable your Facebook?

 

Mainly to reassure my girlfriend, but I did it prematurely since she ended up admitting that she overreacted. I'm on vacation, and I know her anxiety would lead her to continue snooping through several years worth of facebook conversations. Also, I could personally use a bit of social media detox.

 

Have you done anything at all unfaithful or even just borderline that would have made her lose trust? I used to be this way in a past relationship, but there was a lot of lying and most likely unfaithfulness, so I was anxious and crazed about social media all of the time, much like your girlfriend.

Fast forward to now and I'm in a very trusting relationship and I don't even think twice about what my bf does online. He can leave his unlocked cell phone next to me for hours and I have no desire to go through it because I don't need to.

Just a thought. I thought I would always be a very jealous anxious and snooping girlfriend but turns out the relationship was just too damaged to be normal.

 

I guess a general question, are people ok with their partners having their social media and phone passwords?

 

Phone password is one thing - I don't leave it anywhere anyway - but idk why anyone else would need my social media passwords

 

Short answer: yes. There's a big age gap between us and when we first started dating, she was way more into me than I thought, while I was just coming out of a bad break up so I was kind going with the flow--not taking the relationship seriously. Her anxiety makes it worst though, because even if there isn't anything there for her to be upset about, she'll get carried away in her thoughts.

I personally don't care if my girlfriend has access to my social media accounts, but she has even admitted to me that she doesn't want it because she thinks she'd abuse it.

 

I don't care about passwords really. I guess, in the future though, I probably wouldn't give out my social media passwords just in case we break up and they start snooping or something.

 

My ex had my email password cause he'd use mine for online accounts sometimes and when we broke up he changed the password and the recovery phone number so... no I would not do that again probably lol

 

I'm too private , my partner would be lucky to learn I even use Twitter

 

Da fuck is wrong with people?

 

Unless it's a shared account there is no reason for anyone else to know the password.

 

I don't keep my phone locked but if I did I wouldn't care. I guess that's self explanatory since I don't keep it locked haha.

My social media is tied to Google Drive and keep as well as Spotify and who knows what else. I'll hand that over when someone hands me a marriage license.

 

I'm too private. I had a partner ask about this place. She said it is weird that I won't share it or show her where I post. And I told her that I believe in having spaces one can just have for themselves. The idea that one should share everything, including internet and physical space, is stupid and ridiculous.

 

Yeah I definitely don't share any of that nor do I ever request it unless it's like "I need to use a computer, can you unlock your laptop?" or something like that.

In my last relationship my ex's mom would randomly message me on Facebook saying "Just a heads up, you should change your password" once a week which was eerie. I wasn't hiding anything but messages like that sure made me feel like I was.

 

Joint FB accounts:

 

I can't imagine what it takes to agree to a joint FB account

I barely even like my own account, I can't imagine having a shared one

 

having a joint Facebook profile is like when two people fit into one XXL t-shirt