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(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 298

Discussion in 'General Forum' started by dylan, Apr 7, 2016.

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  1. thesoftskeleton

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    i broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years. weird feeling and definitely devastating. i think i'm more scared of understanding myself more than anything, something i haven't been forced to do in a very long time. and also i have no idea what people do to date/meet people anymore. i feel very out of touch when it comes to the matter.
     
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  2. ReginaPhilange

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    felt this when I broke up with my first gf. granted we only dated for 2 years not 7. Looking back it feels like it was a whole different life. I definitely went through the phase of having to find myself but I think you come out of it a better person. Surround yourself with good friends and family, treat yourself, and don't take dating too seriously for a while, at least until you're ready.
     
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  3. Joe4th

    Memories are nice, but that's all they are. Prestigious

    I feel that hard. Fresh out of a two year relationship and just feel kind of lost and completely unsure how to put myself back out and meet someone
     
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  4. St. Nate

    LGBTQ Supporter (Lets Go Bomb TelAviv Quickly) Prestigious

    Lucky.

    You see, to many tinder is a catalogue of folks who don't want to bang.
     
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  5. Dominick

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    There's more to life than banging, Nate.
     
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  6. Greg Nov 27, 2016
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    Greg

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    im pretty much always alone. Most days it's fine, some days it's world shattering.
     
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  7. St. Nate

    LGBTQ Supporter (Lets Go Bomb TelAviv Quickly) Prestigious

    I know this.

    The problem is I know this too well.
     
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  8. Kiana

    Goddamn, man child Prestigious

    I need to find another boring person to date. is there like boringpeople.com? where we never leave the house and just sit and watch netflix while eating take out. and a crazy night out is when we physically go to the restaurant to eat. wild!
     
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  9. Dominick

    Prestigious Prestigious

    Real talk.

    They don't even need to talk to me very often.
     
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  10. Kiana

    Goddamn, man child Prestigious

    It'd be preferable if they didn't talk to me often imo!
     
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  11. ReginaPhilange

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    have you ever asked a date to play the silence game cuz that'd be golden.
     
  12. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    run away with me Platinum

    must need human contact for like 10 minutes a month max at my convenience
     
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  13. ReginaPhilange

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    I'm basically a cat when it comes to dating. If I feel like they aren't paying enough attention to me I get all sad and needy but as soon as the start showing too much attention I get weirded out and issue a clinger warning.
     
  14. ReginaPhilange

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    I just realized I accidentley made a pun here. I can do it without trying. I've reached my final form.
     
  15. Kiana

    Goddamn, man child Prestigious

    I've always randomly dated social butterfly extroverts. I think cause in social settings they do all the talking and I can just sit silently and nod and I like it that way lol. but then they always wanna do stuff and I'm like naaaw
     
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  16. ReginaPhilange

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    I relate to this so much.
     
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  17. CobraKidJon

    Fun must be always. Prestigious

    I need someone who will go on food dates with me because that's all I want.
     
  18. jjnunn118

    Signal Vs. Noise Prestigious

    Sup gurl... *tries to wink*
     
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  19. jjnunn118

    Signal Vs. Noise Prestigious

    Man I've been trying to find a date to go see Moana all weekend and no luck. Why do none of the girls I know wanna go see a cute Disney movie?
     
  20. iam1bearcat

    i'm writing a book, leave me alone.

    A female friend of mine texted me this morning "can we meet up and talk about us?"

    There has never been an "us" outside of being friends. We don't flirt or anything like that. We've been friends for about six years. We talk about once a month for a few minutes, go out to eat once every four months. So obviously, it's great.

    What the fuck am I to make of this text or what she wants to talk about?

    Note: I did text her back if she meant to send me that text, and as written, and she said yes and I've ignored responding ever since so I know it wasn't a goof on her part.
     
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  21. bigmike

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    I struggle to find the balance with my girlfriend of me not being that affectionate of a person. There's a line where I need to compromise and attempt to be more affectionate for her sake, yet I feel like "why you trying to change me?" as if being more affectionate would be some disastrous thing to add to my personality. Things like holding hands/arms around each other and whatnot are things that I just do not think of or want, to be honest.
     
  22. Dominick

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    Word. I have to be in a mood to be affectionate.
     
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  23. AelNire

    @RiotGrlErin Prestigious

    I'm not into excessive PDA but a little bit is nice.
     
  24. thischarmingman

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    lol ok this is now my new way of fucking with people
     
  25. supernovagirl

    Poetic and noble land mermaid

    So contrary to popular advice, I have not "ditched his ass"...yet.
    But.
    I met his best friend and holy crap he looks like Jesse Lacey. I was, embarassingly, heart eyes for him. and he was kinda hitting on me... so.... maybe that will happen? hahah. He made it clear that he actually supports that happening. Because things with us are purely physical on his side, I guess.
     
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