(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 274

Not sure if I posted, mainly due to the fact I'm pretty drunk, but the girl I had been dating/making out with regularly hit me with "I'd love to see you again, but so we can build on our friendship, I'm not sure I'm ready to take dating any further yet"

My main issue with this is just say you're not interested in me, so much better than the "I'm a nice person" lie of "I'm not ready to take things further yet". I mean, I can take the brutality.

Guess it's onto the next one!

 

Also sorry for flaking on the fish puns.

Edit: I was just trying to scale back the laughs.

 

Crappie - Wikipedia

but i dont have time to defend my puns, I've got bigger fish to fry

 

I think I'm at the point where I want a relationship now but I still lack the confidence to initiate with anyone so essentially nothing's changed.

 

Well played. I thought autocorrect got the best of you.

 

you strike me as the heartbreaker type

 

Breaks hearts like he does the yokes of capitalism

 

I'm a mess and don't know what I want. I think despite all my protests I do want a serious relationship but I talk myself out of them cause you know, commitment issues. Plus honestly the only man I even really know or speak to regularly is my dad lol. My job is almost all women and I don't do much socially outside of work to meet anyone.

 

still not sure if I want a relationship or not but I know if I don't try eventually I'll never know, and how much is not wanting and how much is thinking I can't do it
Avril's right this shit is complicated

 

ive been with my s/o for about 4 months now and our relationship is as strong as ever, we're madly in loving falling more in love every day. living with her is honestly really great and i couldnt be happier. that is all, needed to give some good news to this thread

 

It's crazy that it's been so long already! Feels like just yesterday everyone was creeping for the deets lol

 

I think I'm meant to be alone.

 

haha i know!! ahhh those were fun days

 

Every time I try and cut things off with this guy he pulls me in harder and I can't resist. This is a shitty cycle lol but I know that pretty soon it's going to end. I really almost ended things today but was struggling to find the words (and balls). It sucks cause I don't WANT things to end but I feel like I'm at that point where it's like okay either things are going somewhere or we need to stop because I'm catching feelings that I don't want to cultivate when they are going nowhere.
Not sure if I even make sense when I vague post here, but whatever.

 

I'm still debating on going back on to the tinder because I do miss it sometimes.

 

With you in the deliriously happy camp, sir. Really glad it's worked out for you.

 

Bit confused. Why do you need to end it? Could you not broach the subject by asking what he is wanting from it and if he's feeling the same as you? Maybe you already explained and I just missed it. Apologies if so.

Having bumbled around most of yesterday talking nonsense with the woman from the Meetup, I asked her out. We're going to do something a week today. I am pleased. No idea how to read her right now, but times are interesting.

 

Is it bad that I want to bang my ex considering she's leaving in a few weeks? She's kind of proved herself to be a deplorable person but she's really fuckin hot. Unlike my other breakups, we didn't have the post-breakup fucking period, we just cut it off. Has anybody hooked up with an ex before?

 

Yes, many times. Only because it was easy, we've done it before, know each other, etc. So we just kept hooking up. One ex we didn't talk for like 4 years, crosses paths again, did it for a few weeks then went on with our lives. The other one was two years-ish. And the one I'm married to now, we dated junior year of high school (17 years old) and got back together around 25-26.

 

I got into a relationshipish argument with a girl about whether buying Skyrim on the XBOX One is a rip off, so that's what's going on.

 

Might as well

 

Sure.

Don't make it so good that she doesn't leave and stays with you, realizing you two are mean to be.

 

LMAO that would be my dream tbh. But yeah, I've had sex with another ex and it meant nothing it was cool. This current ex....I dunno it all feels a little different, but she's moving to another country in a couple weeks and I miss dat ass tbh


EDIT: We used to fuck around at work and would always talk about wanting to have sex at work once I became manager. Well, we broke up but I am a closing manager now so at night I pretty much have the building to myself and it would be cool to fulfill that fantasy

 

There's a girl at work that I think is kind of into me or interested in talking to me but she never makes a move. I'm guessing waiting for me to notice and do something but I enjoy playing dense and not doing anything.

Every morning I park in the same area of the large parking lot and she'll be in her car a few stalls over. As soon as I get out, she gets out. If I take 15 minutes to get out of my car or 5 seconds, she always gets out when I do. Then she'll walk behind me and maybe mumble "hi", but only if I do first. This has been going on for 3 weeks.

I mostly just want to tell her I'm not interested since she's not any of the "types" I go for, so she can stop wasting her time but after 3 weeks I figured she would've figured that out by now.