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Accountability in Music • Page 783

Discussion in 'Music Forum' started by OhTheWater, Nov 14, 2017.

  1. Sean Murphy

    i'll never delete a post Supporter

    You are correct, but in mattys defense (ugh) there are people who have done way more heinous shit than he has. It doesnt excuse mattys assery nor does it excuse the ppl who defend him just bc 1975 is chorus' #1 favee.
     
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  2. who are the artists we aren't allowed to talk about here
     
  3. neo506

    2001-2022 Prestigious

    oh absolutely I'm not saying he's on par with rapists or sexual predators. Just that when you scroll through this thread, the folks that fall into the category of "toxic" as opposed to actual criminal acts are (rightly) held to account for their words while people minimize Matty's actions and say "everyone is just waiting for him to say something controversial and then pile on"
     
  4. Atticus5143

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    Who is defending him though? I love The 1975 and I can fully admit he’s an idiot and it makes it harder to like the band. It isn’t criminal though, and I think it’s completely reasonable for me to care less when he’s being an idiot online for attention over the vile shit that comes around here like the Jesse Lacey’s of the world.
     
  5. imthegrimace

    the poster formally known as thesheriff Supporter

    Some people in the 1975 thread definitely defend him.
     
  6. Yeah neo is absolutely right about the pushback whenever Matty does something dumb

    edit: idk about the whole “artists that we aren't allowed to mention on the website for less than what Matty is allowed to get away with” thing though, that part is lost on me
     
  7. Michael Belt

    metadata incarnate Supporter

    yeah, that's what i was originally referring to. i muted the thread because the defense of his nonsense is ridiculous.
     
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  8. Zilla

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    I think we can acknowledge there are problematic artists with active threads on here that we kind of excuse because we like their music, from Blink to John Mayer to LANY to Nicki Minaj. It’s exhausting trying to keep up with everything and we all have different tipping point for when it’s just time to stop listening. As a 1975 fan, I just don’t understand any defense of Matty any more. He needs his Internet access revoked.

    To the other point - We still talk about bands like Brand New and All Time Low in mostly negative ways, but I don’t think anyone has said you can’t say their names.
     
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  9. justin.

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    LANY has been a hard one. It was disappointing as hell that their vocalist was revealed to be a fuck boy who would manipulate his relationships into him always being the victim. I did stop listening for a few months but due to it not being a case where he was singularly abusing his platform to find girls to take advantage of, I was able to still tolerate the music.

    Probably just my bias and excuse because LANY was a band I listened to regularly during a very transitional period in my life. I acknowledge that it’s probably bias on my end and understand why someone wouldn’t listen to their music or support them on tour. I’d also be fine if the LANY thread was locked due to others not being comfortable with it.

    But, like you said, we have our tipping points. If he was being a shitty boyfriend to impressionable girls who were his fans then that would be a tipping point.

    Don’t know why I made this comment, either. Maybe I’m wanting to see if others struggle with this towards other groups.
     
  10. HelloThisIsDog

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    Re: “Artists we aren’t allowed to talk about”

    I think they might be referring to bands who got their forums removed upon allegations such as Brand New and Pinegrove. But I think it more so had to do with the arguing and toxicity within those threads. I don’t know. That’s all.
     
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  11. Those artists did not do "way less" than Matty though lol. I agree with the sentiment that people should not defend Matty for stuff like this, I just still see people reference JL or Kanye on here all the time, almost exclusively in a negative light
     
  12. Sean Murphy

    i'll never delete a post Supporter

    i cant imagine thats what he meant
     
  13. Penlab

    Prestigious Supporter

    He's saying the exact opposite.
     
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  14. Atticus5143

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    Wording in that first part just came out strange. My apologies. Carry on.
     
  15. HelloThisIsDog

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    I missed the “way less” part.
     
  16. I wish I had watched this recently enough to give more specific references than 2 2 hour videos but Jared is very smart and Black and Jewish so thought it was worth sharing. This is from 10/2021 so I guess around the time the Kanye first said "I love Nazis" outright



     
  17. TriangularDuck

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  18. Penlab

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  19. Bane

    The spiciest meme

    Thanks Youtube for recommending me some band that just came out with an EP today with Jonny Craig guesting on every song, super cool to see.
     
  20. Daniel

    Party Mom Supporter

    something something laptop something something.

    I'm tired.
     
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  21. bedwettingcosmo

    i like bands who can't sing good Supporter

    aaron gillespie, too.
     
  22. irthesteve

    formerly irthesteve Prestigious

  23. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    run away with me Platinum

     
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  24. Cameron

    FKA nowFace Prestigious

    lol
     
  25. Sean Murphy

    i'll never delete a post Supporter

    Finally, here you are
     
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