(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 262

With us or the ranger stuff?

 

With you guys.

 

Pop punk needs it otherwise what else are bands gonna whine about for an album?

 

His schedule got really crazy. He wanted to cycle for the army's cycling team too so it got to where we saw less and less of each other. I ended it and we'd get together every now and then. He wanted to go back to school in Texas once he got out. I didn't want to move so I knew the time would come and I think he did too. He's a really nice guy. Things might have been different if we hadn't been so young. Then we just lost touch.

 

Their town
That new pizza place that open right by the baseball field.
all their friends?

 

...but there'd be no relationships with their friends!

 

I mean that's every genre in music really. Kind of hard to avoid.

 

Personally never desired a relationship but ironically I love romantic comedies and love when people find their lobster

For me though I feel fine doing everything alone but is it healthy who knows

 

I'd like a relationship because I would like to not be alone and love sounds like a good time. Romantic comedies are my favorite because people get happy endings and I would like one of those too. Functionally, though, I've been solo forever. I'm not sure how I would even integrate someone else into my life at this point.

The idea is fantastic, just not sure about implementation, I guess.

 

I want a relationship but I'd be fine being by myself too. I'm thankful for that.

 

I'd prefer a relationship, but I don't want to have one for the sake of it. Maybe that will change as I tip over 30.

 

I also have the dilemma of having chemistry with people older than me versus people my age or younger. Pretty much everyone I date somewhat successfully ends up being older than me but then shit happens and it has to end, but now being 25 the divide is apparent for them I think? So it's like I won't date anyone around my age but I'm too young for people otherwise haha.

There are exceptions of course, it's not like I just shut someone down if they're 23, but it's easy to tell when there's difference in priorities I guess. I don't know, I'm rambling.

 

I just wanna have someone to go with me to corn mazes and pumpkin patches so I don't look like a creeper going through a corn maze on my own

 

Relationships are great and I'd love to be in one but I think the ability to be comfortable and secure with yourself as a single person is underrated.

 

Having kids is also a weird factor because it's not like I demand unconditional love, I already receive that (kinda). So it's trying to find the line between "I don't want this to be an attached-at-the-hip relationship and move super fast" and "Yeah this is fun but does this fit my family lifestyle"

 

Hey everyone Dustin loves cougars

 

The sky is blue

Haha I thought everyone already knew that but I guess it flew under the radar in my past AP/Chorus posts

 

I like being in a relationship; always been in one. Actually the longest time I wasn't was probably a year or so when I was 23-24. I broke up with someone I was dating for over 4 years because she was done with school and wanted to move states away - just wasn't going to work out. I was pretty torn up about it and really didn't want to date - finally had a girl show interest in me (the year or so later), so I did that for 3 months to get back on my feet. Next person I dated after that one girl for three months ended up being the person I married.

 

I honestly don't know if I enjoy it. Last time I was in one I did. It's hard to tell now just because of how long it's been

 

I like being in relationships. I enjoy getting to know people and finding shared interests and finding out you both love something obscure. Stephen King writes a lot about secret languages in a relationship. Words and phrases that can only make sense to you and your partner(s). I love developing that.

That being said, I have actually had some success in dating recently. I met a guy on OkCupid and we went out for sushi, went to a concert together, and ended the night hanging out on a playground. As first dates go, that was top notch.

 

every once in a blue moon i'll get stupid and think relationships are okay / can be good and then (luckily) i remember almost instantly that there's more to relationships than what is shown in rom-coms and that "what if...?" feeling goes away like it should.

 

I love being in a relationship but I also have never sought one out. If I woman comes into my life that I'm interested in, awesome, but I've never gone searching. Honestly, the thought of dating just for fun sounds so fucking exhausting to me. There just aren't enough people that I'm genuinely interested in for me to consider dating just to pass the time. For the record, I miss the fucking hell out of my ex, but I miss the companion, and not necessarily the companionship, if that makes sense.

Edit: This most recent breakup was a big blow for me and I plan on being single for a good long while.

 

Only really been in the one officially, but I'm a pretty big fan.

 

I really enjoyed being in the one I've been in, which is why I'm struggling right now waiting to pretty much find out if it's going to be over or not.

 

Every now and then I go on this let's say special interest website cause I have special interests and soon after I hate it.