(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 243

Well, sure. That's because if you do at some point that friendship will change in one direction or another. Kissing friends is playing with fire.

 

Was supposed to have a date with a girl last thursday, but she changed restaurants on me and when I showed up her and like 9 of her friends were halfway through a bunch of nachos.

 

Why do you say that

 

the most natural reaction to like getting hurt is like wanting to never be hurt ever again. you don't hurt if you don't feel. there's no point to fighting that reaction. emotional unavailability is (usually) temporary but you have to wait it out.

 

me and u are gonna thread hug

 

Lets all just friend kiss ok?

 

Is this that weird thing where people make weird noises and lick each other's faces?

 

I like kissing and am also good at it. Just putting that out there to counterbalance the Age of Empires stuff

 

I would die of embarrassment if someone told me I was a bad kisser.

 

I think I'm a bad kisser and also I play age of empires II a lot and I'm not good at that either. Idk where that leaves me!

 

Kissing is great I've done it semi recently

 

Seriously. I have been told I'm good, but sometimes people just don't have the guts to be honest about something like that. If I found out it was all a lie... I don't even know.

 

OH YEAH

 

I would do it again soon if I could figure out what this person is thinking lol

 

Oh man this alfredo sauce I made is bad too. I'm such a catch

 

Yeah, I've never had any complaints but that doesn't mean anything really.

I was having a weirdish convo with a friend about when during sex someone asks do you like that? Do many people say no I hate that, stop doing that, etc.

We decided on maybe like further into the relationship it's ok to be brutally honest lol

 

if you can cook without a microwave you're better than me, I guess I could learn how to cook I'm just always worried I'm gonna start a fire it stresses me out so much

 

I make attempts and usually fail. Like today I meant to add a bit of flour to thicken it up and accidentally put in a lot and now I feel like I'm eating flour sauce.

 

i feel like "good" in terms of physical affection is entirely subjective to your partner and their preferences

 

I'll make some and UPS it your way.

 

I think I'm a bad kisser just from lack of experience and also i'm anxious and insecure and in my head a lot. I think I can be good when I relax, but that's a tall order for me lol. I was in an unhealthy relationship where if I was too "good" at things he'd accuse me of cheating and practicing with someone else and call me names so it was like a constant source of anxiety and I still carry that.

#DebbieDownerLol

Plus I'm a control freak and I don't like to close my eyes/not have control of all my senses. #Weirdo

 

To an extent yes.

But i had a girl who told me that she loved "shoving her tongue" (paraphrasing here) down the others throat. And I swear it's like she just sort of flicked her tongue. Did she actually think she used a lot of tongue? I'll be honest, I never talked to her about it. I just enjoyed it for what it was. But by what she said she was doing, she was doing a really bad job haha