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Accountability in Music • Page 311

Discussion in 'Music Forum' started by OhTheWater, Nov 14, 2017.

  1. campeondeluniverso

    nah.

    wasn't there also a Jesse Lacey post on IAU too? i remember seeing something about skyping/webcam stuff.
     
  2. I remember searching to see if I could find any record of an assault claim filed, but I couldn't find anything at the time.
     
  3. I mean, there were posts about a lot of people on IAU so probably?
     
  4. This is what I remember coming out at some point as IAU completely making up to try and fuck over the band. Everything is really fuzzy now 8 years later and I feel old.
     
  5. Martina Aug 20, 2019
    (Last edited: Aug 20, 2019)
    Martina

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    This story about ADTR dates back to when I first started going to shows, and I tried to follow stories like this very closely. I have a lot of PDF'd screenshots in an archive I'll search later to see what I can get. But I do have this to add for now.

    If you do a Google search for "morgan payne" "a day to remember" (quotes included) or similarly "morgan payne" "josh woodard" you'll see a lot of Tumblr posts still up from people commenting on the story, some believing the story pretty much as posted above, some doubting it. Many of those Tumblr pages appear to me to be authentic, at least many show activity as recent as a year or two ago, which a fake profile created to trash someone or other might not bother to do beyond getting out posts on an intended target. I remember so much being talked about related to this ADTR related story that I'd say something probably did happen in real life, and it sounds like a typical episode in the scene that everyone knows about but no one in authority wants to do anything about, though I still don't know enough to say I'm certain the IAU post screenshot from Facebook was authentic.

    This was a time when there was so little interest in any kind of established music press covering harassment in the music scene that sites like IAU and especially "The Dirty" were actually used by a lot of people trying to call out harassment -- not just calling for harassment of women but trying to use the sites to report guys who were harassing women or acting in a sexually predatory manner.

    I think it says a lot about how the scene handled (and still handles) these issues that what we have today isn't a whole lot better. Similar to the movie industry post-Weinstein and #metoo, labels and promoters are a lot more sensitive about how they look in social media, but little else off stage and out of the social media spotlight has changed. This story is an example -- nearly ten years on and we're still analyzing screenshots from Is Anything Up as a (possibly) authoritative source of information on this story.
     
  6. Stephen Young

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    There were also MySpace screenshots or copy pastes from ADTR guy apologizing for what happened. I vaguely remember it, but I think someone had sent them to my AP account years back.
     
  7. Stephen Young

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    Didn't IAU or hunter Moore get banned from a festival because he was gonna "fight" ADTR or something?

    I can't help but feel like shit like IAU laid the groundwork for alt right internet provocateurs.
     
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  8. Based on vibes if nothing else, I'd agree with this.
     
  9. The revenge porn into the MRA shit isn't a big stretch for sure.
     
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  10. Stephen Young

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    Yeah, it's definitely the "vibe" thing- the whole "I'm going to be an asshole and it's up to you to convince me not to be one, also fuck you for thinking I'm an asshole, I hate you"
     
  11. ItsAndrew

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  12. 333 GANG

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    I can’t speak to the authenticity of the allegations, but I will say that I used to be good friends with Josh Woodard, and he is a shit human being in every sense of the word. I have no trouble believing that email detailing her Warped experience was accurate.

    I’ve since completely stopped listening to ADTR, a band I used to very much adore, after my personal experiences with Josh.
     
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  13. ItsAndrew

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  14. iCarly Rae Jepsen

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  15. Kiana

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    What losers. Imagine caping for literal trash. Only good thing about this is that it reminds me that xxx is no longer alive to harm anyone else. Imagine wanting to contribute positively in any way to a person like that. Can't relate! Sad that blink 182 can!
     
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  16. youll be fine

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    Pretty sure Travis has a XXX tribute tattoo also
     
  17. Kiana

    Goddamn, man child Prestigious

    I can't even imagine the mental gymnastics being a man involves. Let alone one that enables abuse. Critical thinking never stood a chance
     
  18. CobraKidJon

    Fun must be always. Prestigious

    lil nas x is cancelled
     
  19. How fucking tone deaf do you have to be to have your drummer repeatedly collaborate with abusers, invite a band full of predators and shitty people to open for you, and then do this shit?
     
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  20. ItsAndrew

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    Why do drunk people think it’s okay to punch their girlfriends? I’ve never had that thought when drunk before.

     
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  21. LessThanTrevor

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    Holy shit I know the guy that posted that. Completely fucked up situation all around. Fuck that band.
     
  22. ItsAndrew

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  23. Cody

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  24. thesoftskeleton

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    its unfortunate that ive become hyperaware of men in crowds at concerts but i went to a show last night and a women kept rubbing my butt and then she put her arm around the lower part of my back and was touching me so idk just was not expecting that. part of me laughed it off and kinda made myself find it excusable because it was not a man but it still wasn't right and i was not comfortable so it bothered more than i initially thought.
     
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  25. That's 100% not okay and I'm sorry that happened to you, wtf