(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 130

Send a stunt double

 

i can't image a parent setting me up with anyone. my mom and dad would pick someone they want me to date, not someone who i'd want to date. are you shutting that down or are you going to think about it?

 

Shutting it down. He's basically a redneck and I can't handle that. Although I hear he's really nice.

 

Can I go as your stunt double?

 

Have at it.

 

Redneck and nice??

 

I know! I've never experienced that before.

 

caught all up on this thread. what a time

 

@AelNire i hope you fall in love with a redneck.

 

I probably will. Bare feet, pregnant, and always in the kitchen, amirite?

 

Update on my shitty life/wife. It's been about a week. In this time I've learned that she cheated multiple times with multiple partners from the time our last fertility treatment failed till the end of our relationship this week. Due to our circumstances, she's still technically living with me, though right at this moment she's at some other new guys house. She'll be back in the morning.

She went from loving mother/wife to completely falling off the deep end fast. I don't even know this girl anymore.

 

christ man, sorry to hear that.

so she lied to you about her cheating? didn't you previously report that she claimed it was just one time with an ex?

unreal. no one should go through what you're going through.

 

@Old Fuck I'm sorry to hear that. I send hugs your way

 

What the fuck. I don't even know what to say man, I wish I could reach through the screen and give you a hug and a beer. I'm so sorry. No one should have to go through that. How are you feeling and coping right now?

 

Wait... I'm drunk, but on this "bumble"? thing, girls are required to message guys first? Is this a real thing?

 

not required, but if you match, they have 24 hours to message you or you can extend the time for them to message. if they dont, the match expires and they're gone 4eva

 

if you swipe right and she swipes left, you don't match. you swipe right and the girl swipes right, you match. if you match, she has 24 hours to message you or you can extend it one more day. if she still doesn't message you, the app will automatically unmatch you guys. i think you need a facebook, i haven't used the app in a while, so i could be wrong

 

Oh, ok. thank you... this site is pretty much the extent of my social media, so I guess I'll just have to be content with being a puppy dad.

 

no problem, good luck dude!

 

bumble...unless it's changed since I used it. They use the same swipe/match concept so that's what's confusing about it

 

Thank you! I know he wants to be here by the end of the year to visit, I'm not going to push him or anything, it's going to be expensive and he'll have to get time off work, we'll see what happens :) I am so happy for you, Skype dates are wonderful, agreed. Haha sexy stuff is weird at first yeah, both of us have really high sex drives so we were "sexting"(??) before he asked me out lol, but it is a learning curve and it is fun.

 

I don't know if this belongs in this thread or the Mental Health one, but I'm gonna go with this one. I fucking hate it when people talk down to people for being happiest in a relationship. I sat at a restaurant tonight listening to this girl ranting, almost bragging, about how she recently left a dude because she felt she was his sole source of happiness. Saying "I just decided he needed to find himself, because if you can't be happy single you aren't ready for a relationship" and just like, fuck that. I am depressed as hell constantly, I have OCD, and I am constantly in a state of panic, and most days the one thing that keeps me sane, and gives me a smile is my girlfriend. She is my sole source of positivity in life like 90% of the time. If someone is depressed, or dealing with things, especially to the point where you feel like you're their one source of positivity in life, don't leave them for that. Believe it or not, it doesn't "fix" them.


/endrant

 

I'm about to be in a relationship for the first time since I was 19. Wild.

 

just saw this hahahaha

 

I couldn't agree more with you. If your relationship brings out the best in you and your partner makes you smile every day, that's absolutely wonderful. I'm glad you're with someone who keeps you sane and smiling!