(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 54

boo thang

 

I'm glad I'm not the only one that feels that way haha. I know there are other people that just needed Chorus to reaffirm that. It's just tough to navigate in a relationship when sometimes a relationship can be draining itself but having expectations and that sort of thing is hard for me when half the time I don't want Facebook to be honest haha

 

i'll say boo thang facetiously when I'm purposefully being an idiot, but that's about it. Even babe is weird for me. I feel like a robot when I see how I am in relationships compared to everyone else. It's good to know I'm not 100% alone in here haha

 

My dad can beat up your dad

 

I haven't seen mine since I was 7 so I'm indifferent to this.

 

An old friend of mine always posts about how perfect her life is and I think it's weird. Like "Just worked a thousand hour shift and then took the kiddo to the park and then cooked this homemade meal from scratch for my beautiful amazing hubby! Blessed!" and I think that's kinda ott haha. Also her husband is 24 and legit looks 50 like I'm glad I saw his picture on there so I don't confuse him with her dad if I ever see them irl like it is that drastic.

 

does anyone have any experience dating someone with different religious views and how has it/did it work out for you? i don't want get too much into and start a debate but my views on major religions is indifferent, i try and respect other peoples views as long as they respect mine. but anyways i have been seeing a woman for about the last month and a half who has strong ties to Christianity (she was raised that way and works as a clerk in one, actually.) I asked her up front if us having different views would be an issue and she said "she liked me enough that she would overlook it", those are not the exact words she used but they were similar. I mean it isn't an issue now as we are hanging out and we are compatible it seems every other way, im just wondering if anyone has had any experience from it and if it possibly would later on.

 

maybe i'm a bitter single person, but i cringe so bad when 25+ year olds call their SO bae's.

 

Whatever the opposite of a #humblebrag is, this post is that

 

'Cause love is a fiction, man.

 

I only have non-serious experience, but it wasn't awful. If she's fine with it, you should be good. If her parents are more religious that's probably going to be the worst of it. The only thing that I can see happening if two people have opposite religious beliefs is if down the road you have kids, you discuss/argue if they're going to be raised in the church or baptized. I could have a serious relationship with someone who was religious, but I couldn't date someone who was a conservative/republican.

 

yeah our relationship is in its early stages so the whole having kids scenario hasn't even been an idea yet, but i agree. she has been pretty open and outright with how she feels about certain things so discussing possible conflicting interests hasn't been a chore, which is nice.

and i know her parents are religious also, just not sure to the extent. i haven't asked just because if we get to that point we will discuss it.

 

i'm about to be 35 and i've been single now for almost a year. divorced and a girlfriend after that was a complete trip, and now it feels good to do what i want and not care about public opinion. i've done the husband thing and the father thing. if it never happens for me again, i can live with it.

 

The people who gush over their SOs on social media are the same who shit talk them after breaking up. They basically use Facebook as their diary. As far as PDA, holding hands/arm around waist or shoulder/kiss on the forehead are all fine to me.

 

I don't really mind people using fb as a "dairy" if they just want to vent or rant about something because we all need to do that at times. When it's what I described earlier about posting to their SO, then I don't want to see it. There's no need for that on fb. Just tell your SO over text or in person. It's not like fb is your only communication. I see your selfie mirror pic you're holding a phone and their statuses always have emojis.

What annoys me is when people on fb complain how others use it as a dairy and how fb "isn't a dairy", like just unfollow them so you can't see their posts. It's their fb and they can post whatever they feel.

 

I'm just not a fan of "dairy", tbh. Cereal, desserts, or fb. ;)

 

Maybe that's why you're single #teammilk

 

It is my goal this week to ask a person out. Terrifying.

 

like, a complete stranger or someone you've been talking to? not sure if one would be worse than another though...

 

Someone who works at Target who I've read as maybe being interested. Hope I'm not wrong, it's hard to tell

 

Let us know how it goes! The worst thing she can do is say no and you're no worse off than you are now. You got this!

 

Then I'll have to get my deli meat elsewhere. Ha.

 

no... just... no. like Chase already answered, then he'd have to shop elsewhere.

i'd be very, very careful with that.

actually, that's something i would never, ever do so i may not be best to give an opinion on it.

 

I am having a hard time interpreting this one. Lol.

 

I've found a girl who shares my disdain for milk. There are dozens of us.