(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 49

hey no, don't take it back! I want it back! I'm sorry! please say sorry again!

 

Classic @AelNire

 

Long distance gets really hard sometimes. I don't really know what to say, I'm just missing him a lot right now, he's away on a holiday with his friends this weekend and we usually spend the weekends on Skype / talking as much as possible he's wonderful and I just wish I could give him more and that we could actually do all the things we want to do together.

 

I need more advice. My wife that I'm splitting from is going on a vacation in a week, I was giving her that time to sort things out, clear her head, and not ruin her time with her family. She hasn't told anyone anything yet.
But I'm dying. I can't see her everyday coming and going and acting like a stranger and living the life I was a part of just 3 days ago. So for me, I have to tell her to leave. She can't stay here anymore. After all I've done for her and all we've been through, and how she repaid me for that, I just can't do this. Would I be wrong for making her leave?

 

Too late. I did it. Now I'm going to throw up.

 

I'm going through something similar but not with someone I'm married to so I can only imagine how you feel. I'm sorry you're going through this but the best thing I've done is just been a stranger too. It is hard but I have to force myself to go out with friends or family. I know it's just a distraction but maybe the space will heal things. In your case it's probably a great thing she's going on vacation.

 

well.. had my first wedding hook up encounter last night. haha

 

Good luck man, keep posting here so we can keep your spirits up.

 

You did the right thing. Call up your buddies and go out and do something, whether it's a pick up game of basketball, a concert, go to a park, whatever. Go outside and keep your mind distracted.

 

Well this is what happened. I told her I couldn't do this anymore and said she has to leave. she says I can't legally kick her out even though it's only my name on the lease and she'll call the police if I try, then she tried emotionally manipulating me, and then tried to have sex with me. I'm starting to think she's a sociopath. But anyway, I didn't give in and just left for a walk. Went 11 miles, came back exhausted but with a clear head and she was gone. So we'll see what happens now.

 

I'm no divorce lawyer, but evicting people is always hard, whether renting, owning, lease or no lease. If you "rented" it out for free for a month gives them more rights than you'd imagine.
Seeing as she caused this whole mess she shouldn't be putting up a fight, but regardless try to stay civil as things tend to work out better when you put on a smile.

PS. This is precisely why I don't get into serious relationships. Can't trust nobody to be faithful anymore.

 

What the fuck. That's ridiculous. Good on you for not giving in. Keep your distance, be civil but firm, and keep your head up. It sounds like you're doing as well as you can in this situation mentally and emotionally, so you're going to be just fine when it's all said and done. Just keep focusing on you,

 

Yea... Not looking great haha I got tinder back and it's still meh as hell

 

I'm going to be 26 and still single before i know it. cheers to being forever alone

its so hard to meet people where i live.

 

I'm about to be 30 and single. Keep your head up.

 

I'm such a hermit I imagine I'll be one of those loner people where kids think I'm a bruja or something and they dare each other to knock on my door

 

have you dated in the past tho?

 

Yeah just currently not.

 

I haven't dated in the past. Guys don't want to date me or ask me on a date. They just lie to me and use me. Imagine how that feels.

#cats4everrr

 

I should ask someone out

 

Is that girl Maria still in this thread? I miss her man bashing

 

Well yeah that sucks.

 

yeah...

 

i think i'll be forever single because the type I want is ridiculously rare and I haven't had luck. And I feel like if I give up wanting that type it's going to be unfair for whoever I do "settle" for.