(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 1349

I hate everyone

 

everyone hates you too dan

 

Not as much as I hate them

 

I've whined about this before but I can't stand when I'm hanging with someone and their partner calls and interrupts just to check in. Like they know we're hanging out. If something is so important like text them?? It's never anything that can't wait. I'm sensitive to it cause my ex used to do it as a means of control but also like chill. I always just end up sitting there awkwardly while they chat. I can't stand it. One of my friends her husband is my fave cause he knows when she's doing something and respects that. He texts if he needs but otherwise leaves her alone. All my other friends boyfriends or husbands call tho and then seem irritated if they don't wanna chat even tho they know we're hanging out. Like bug off!!!

 

I keep forgetting to hurl myself into a meat grinder or something to forego all of this

 

that’s not a vegetarian friendly way to get those results chief

 

@ Peter Stormare in Fargo

 

I'm not gonna eat myself

 

I honestly think I’m being catfished on tinder and I’m so confused that I want to continue to message this person lol

 

my girlfriend is a nicki stan

 

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you wanna go halves on this?

 

oh I forgot to mention, out of that gauntlet of dates I went on last weekend/week, one of the girls I've already been back out with twice more. We kissed last night, it was electric.

 

Had a good realization on bad relationships. We all have knots in our threads with other threads folks. Some are good some are bad. They all strengthen the collective rope though and you can’t cut them. As you cultivate knots with those that genuinely love and care about you, the tug from the bad ones become minuscule. There’s some grace in seeing that we’re all heading in an upwards direction through the rope though and its strength comes from seeing and surrounding yourself in the love of those good ones. All the knots are not for not, even the bad ones.

 

I should add that those pulls from the good knots that you eventually make pull on the threads that made the bad ones, and helps pull their threads in the right direction just as strongly as their thread pulls weakly on yours because they were negative.

 

Drinking at a bar/club and there is this girl that I think is p cute but of course I don’t say anything cause I suck. Anyways, later on in the night a girl comes up to me and says, “hey, my friend thinks you’re cute and wants your number.” And points to the aforementioned girl! Apparently she’s shy. Anyways, I introduce myself and put my name in her contacts as “bald dude.” 1000% chance nothing comes of this. All will be lost, like tears in rain

 

this is why you should always try and exchange numbers instead of only one person having the other's imo

 

gotta account for that equanimity of opportunity ya know.

 

Usually I let them give me their number without giving out mine cause there’s an 85% chance I won’t actually wanna hang when the morning comes. But hey, if this person wants to hang out or whatever, why not?

 

You don’t know in the moment what you’ll want in the morning though so that keeps more doors open just in case

 

Indeed. I guess we’ll see if I get a text or not! Haha

 

Definitely! I don’t think it’s a conscious effort of the things we leave up to fate (for lack of a better word, they’re just things outside our control). But I always think it’s worth analyzing those things that we do and why. If it’s from a place of fear or complacency for example, maybe bad, from a place of trust, definitely good.

 

A drunk encounter doesn’t always need as heavy a hand as that though so you can prolly ignore that lol

 

Yeah I can’t wven comprehend that rn lmao

 

I always like when guys would just give me their number. It felt safer. Vs if I give them my number and they end up harassing me. Which I guess I could block them. But some guys are so intense about it that I have heard of them making women call them then and there so they know they're getting a real number. Giving the woman the number let's her decide and have that power because dating and meeting random men can be dangerous for us and feeling like we have a choice to initiate a convo vs feeling pressured or intimidated to is nice. Speaking generally. Just my perspective!!

 

Yeah I always give my number, never ask for someone else’s. I like that it lets the other person decide if they want to talk or not without putting them on the spot.