(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 1326

a new boyfiend

 

zing

 

no she's not into the threesome thing.

she said and I quote, "i'm more than enough man" for her.

that's a real quote folks.

 

Not gonna lie, I’d be stoked to get this

 

I’ve mentioned it before but this one girl I went to school with who complains every time she’s single (she’s worse than the other person that complains that they’re single) is now saying how she gives up on dating etc. It’s like she feels like the right guy for her fall easily in to her lap. Anyway she will literally post a pic of her and her date on social media when it’s not an official relationship. Just a date. In my opinion her doing that makes her look silly. “Me and my dating app date” is pretty much the invisible caption. Then when things don’t work out it’s complains about guys. It’s also like she wants attention by doing that/is desperate to have people know she’s not single or like a self esteem booster. I don’t know, I don’t know why someone would want that. What are people’s thoughts of posting a pic of you and a “first date” of someone you met online? If a guy that I met online wanted a pic of us on the first date I’d probably run quickly. I’ve seen them shows.

Anyway about me trying to move in with the bf, I might move in “part time” and stay there a few nights out of the week like as a guest so I don’t have to be added to the lease right away or pay rent (he said I wouldn’t need to pay rent if I did it that way). That way I can have more time to downsize my belongings and find out what I’m able to bring over since the apt is super small. Literally I’ll try to find an idea for small apt on Pinterest and can’t do it because there’s no room for it. No wall space or the only wall space is taken up by a couch or something needed like that

 

How many sq ft is "small"? Also, there is plenty of space above the couch to hang shelves, pictures, etc.

 

Maybe this is kind of a dumb thing to bring to the thread cause I’m still in high school but my first serious girlfriend and I are about to hit 6 months. A lot of friends have been telling me lately that this is the period when we start to argue/get sick of each other sometimes. It makes me really nervous and sick to my stomach. Been curled up in bed listening to Knuckle Puck trying to not think about it but it’s eating away at me.

 

Every relationship has a honeymoon period but that doesn’t mean once it’s over you get sick of each other and argue - it’s not even a better or worse thing it’s just a different stage of the relationship and that should be exciting in its own right. There are also no set time periods like that haha.

 

I.e. don’t listen to your friends on this one that’s nonsense

 

Screw them tbh!! Like yeah eventually fights will happen and things get real but overcoming those things help u become stronger and bonded. Relationships where nobody argues can be boring imo and ppl can get complacent. I think when the arguing is healthy it can help both ppl grow and become better partners. Romcoms make it seem so easy like after one big climax of an argument people make up and things falls into place, the end. But through compromises and arguments and ups and downs you learn what you want and need and how to be there for your partner and it's all a learning experience

 

Also I would say don't listen to teenagers for dating advice but idk if the ppl in here are much smarter

 

yeah that's actually true if I was smart I wouldn't still be coming into this thread.

 

You’re still not sure? After all these years and what goes on in here? Bless your still optimistic heart.

 

I would agree with basically all of this, save for arguing being healthy. I think it’s healthier to not argue and then take some time to calm down and talk it out after the fact.

However that’s likely because I’m pretty vindictive in arguments and have said a lot of shitty things to people in the past so I actively choose not to argue. That’s what works for me in my relationships. But your advice is the truuuth though. There’s no set timeframes where relationships turn “real” and you’ll have to work through problems in any relationship.

 

wats your IG name, I follow you right?

 

See I am a total arguer and bickerer at heart lmao but I don't rly take it personally or seriously so that's just where I'm at! I'm also a jerk and try not to laugh in arguments and serious moments so I fail there

 

Ooh yeah I’m that way too. I love arguing about stupid stuff. But I can’t argue if I’m angry cause I get mean.

 

I think so yeah, rn it's yaokynot

 

nice. I like ur posts

 

@oldjersey DM’s my insta conssttaanntlyyy. Don’t let it go that far @Jacob

 

sorry about all the dick pics he sends you

they're just selfies

 

tone is the funniest guy on here, I said it.

 

Thanks for exercising your right to vote!

 

shit, my last date didn't cancel on me. she called an audible. she's getting over being sick so instead of a brewery tomorrow night we're walking our dogs through a park first thing in the morning. she's asking me if my good boye is ok without a leash. he's not, he's a goddamn wild man. can't wait to be embarrassed by my dog.

she is the End Boss. it's been a wild ride.

 

I may have stumbled my way into a relationship. Will update soon cause we’re going out again in two days lol