(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 827

Has anyone went on a separate vacation, while, being in a relationship? We are currently considering this...

 

Yeah, of course. Am I missing something here? What's the issue?

I've gone to Disney, Universal, etc. on my own (but met up with friends), she's gone to Spain with friends, we've both gone on beach trips alone; why hold someone back?

 

Yes.

I’m going to Disney world/Orlando next month and she’s going to New York with a friend in April. It’s always nice to do things like vacation together but sometimes it is nice to do separate things as well. IMO.

 

is it official now @Mr. Serotonin

 

Just officially awesome, that's all

 

Hahaha, I just realized I posted in the wrong thread

 

lol i thought so

 

Needs to be official eventually though. It's weird to know when and how to even go about that as you get older. When you're in High School you're just like "You wanna be my girlfriend?"

Simpler times.

 

for real homie

 

I'm waiting for the day that I try to have that conversation and the woman just says something to the tune of:

"Well, obviously. What the hell did you think we've been doing for 3 months?"

 

It's gone from "Will you be my girlfriend?" to "we're not fucking anyone else, right?"

 

Haha right? The way we made it official was when she hung out with her roommates and they asked if we were Facebook official yet, and she joked with me about them asking, so I just took my shot and asked her if she wanted to be haha

 

Hahaaa, exactly. That's what i'm picturing happening

 

I think you can still ask that, like what's she gonna say that's a perfectly normal question

 

Oh damn, she made it easy for you, haha. This girl isn't really the type to sleep around anyway, so i'm not worried. Just weird when people ask you and you don't have that "title" for it. It's just like, I like her...she's really cool and we hang out all the time and sleep together.

 

bryan pretty much straight up asked me "uh so are you my boyfriend now?"

it was adorable

 

Sillyness aside, my way of working in recent years is to admit at some point that I've not been interested in seeing anyone else and then giving it some time to work out if I really want to commit to the situation. At which point, I would hope I'd get the opportunity to ask in a kind of cutesy way, self deprecating, as opposed to laying in bed and answering: "So, um, what are we doing?"

Sadly, it's been a rather long time since I got to the cutesy bit.

 

There's a pun in pretty much straight but I don't if it would be homophobic to say it

 

I'll just wait a little longer cause it's only been a few weeks. There's no reason not to ask kinda soon though. She's 100% the most attractive and smartest girl I've been with and I can't stop thinkin' about her.

 

She's made you forget about lunch, that's quite the feat

 

shoot your shot

 

He’s already done plenty of that

 

Yet, still not enough