Vent Your Frustrations • Page 52

Hi people, I've never posted on this thread. I just want to vent my frustrations about the Paul brothers. Logan and Jake Paul are awful people. Logan was hated at the university he attended before dropping out and moving to California to pursue his vine career. I talked to him once and he was an asshole to everyone around him. He's from a town 10 minutes from where I'm from. It pains me that two horrible brothers are famous for creating a stupid social media following.

 

I recently learned that someone is saying stuff about me that isn't true and im like smh sis I bought you pizza once like pls refund that $7.99 thanx

 

Sometimes I click a notification on here for a new post in a thread and I check it out, but don't notice that it's the last post on the page and that another page had started, so I click out and go do something else only to later find out that I've missed pages of comments because I wasn't diligent in looking.

Sometimes it's nice for things like the Absurdist Twitter thread because I get to catch up on a lot of funny stuff. Other times, like with the General Politics thread, all I have to catch up on is pages of despair.

 

When you are closing all the apps on your phone and you close the Spotify/Apple one

 

I live around people that holds their bonds over each other as family/friends/etc blaming other things over it, then wonders why the relationships aren't close. It's one thing if you keep a distance cus someone is fucking up in life or hurting others... but if it's just opinions, esp over things that their opinion will never matter on cus those things are too personal to allow others influence on (my identity, who i love, etc.), why would I feel like a bad guy for just being, you disagreeing and trying to hold a relationship over my head? One that you end up getting mad I ultimately neglect BECAUSE concern is one thing, dictation/emotional manipulation is another.

 

I cannot stand people that need to have a slight/have such an inferiority complex they create slights where there is none. All you're doing is upsetting yourself then doubling down on the upset when no one feeds into your made up woe is me nonsense.

 

woke up to get yelled at by my dad. said he can't sleep worrying about where I'm at. I got home at 9pm ffs (actually a lil bit before 9), had gone out with some friends to a brewery to get food, my friends bought me a couple beers. He said he's tired of seeing me "wasted". I wasn't (not even close). I'm 22, I really don't get this shit. If you can't sleep that's not my problem, sorry. I can't sleep either, I don't fucking blame it on other ppl.

 

was he asleep at 8:45??????????

 

no. this is why i'm so confused lol.

 

I'm whining about the same shit again so just feel free to ignore my whiny ass lol But being paid on production is absolute shit. All it takes is 1 bad doctor and my production for the day plummets. They can keep saying it's all based on how fast we work but no. That's BS. When I have a doctor that is hard to understand bc he is dictating in what sounds like a wind tunnel, I'm not gonna be able to "type fast." I gotta keep rewinding to hear over the fucking wind!! So my production is out of my hands and it sucks. I've done everything I can to type as fast as possible. Fuck all of it. Pay us hourly!!! We deserve at least that. We get no PTO, no sick days, no over time, no holiday pay, no bonuses, no insurance, no 401K, not even a fucking lunch break! Give us 1 damn thing ya greedy bastards.

 

This guy I work with had the nerve to be unnecessarily rude... and it's only my 2nd day at my new job. He's been there for a few weeks. I also wasn't even trained so I feel clueless about a lot of things and there are many things I'm new to. I don't know what he's use to and he obviously doesn't know what I'm use to doing. He also seems "too nice" in the sense that he'll say we need to stay late so the next shift doesn't get stuck doing something/he doesn't want to next shift to do it. It really pissed me off because that's not how I do things and thats not how things were done at my previous job. Also the person working next shift didn't even offer to help which also pissed me off. It took nearly an hour past my clock out time to finish work I didn't feel like I was suppose to be doing. All of this would have been avoided if the guy would have listened to me in the first place

 

I was excited when I read you got a new job but then the post got sad again. That's so annoying you had to stay that late!

 

Yeah I gotta make sure it doesn't happen again. I feel like I'm dealing with the same drama as my old job.

 

I am so beyond frustrated monetarily. I've been living paycheck to paycheck since I moved to Chicago - I accrued a fair bit of debt living in a MUCH cheaper city before I ended up coming here and then the move/furnishing an apartment/various costs between then and now have pretty much buried me. I have a decent paying salary job, but by the time my bills are paid I'm typically scraping with what I have left, which sucks as a person who pretty much left everything he loved behind for the comfort and stability of full-time work.

Just got another bill added on top of what I already thought was too many and I find myself looking at my bank account the day after payday and just shutting down. Everyone I talk to recommends finding part-time work, but my wife is a full-time medical student, so I'm basically working full-time + handling most of the household responsibilities, cleaning, taking care of our animals, the list goes on, so finding actual part-time work is basically out of the question for me as far as time goes.

Just sick of feeling like I'm working solely for survival. I know things will get better as time passes, I'm just frustrated at my younger self for letting my debt reach this point (though hindsight is always 20/20.)

Past that, anyone here do anything on the side that can be done remote or something? Unfortunately Uber and Lyft are out of the question, too, as my time restrictions would make it so I'd barely be off-setting the insurance/gas costs.

 

when it takes you an hour to drive 15kms. damn you winnipeg

 

I'm miserable every day. I hate pretty much everything and most days I don't even see a point in existing. I have no hope and I feel like things are only getting worse. I just want to be somewhat happy with my life. I just want to feel good about something

 

I'm sorry you feel that way man - can't say I haven't felt the same way before.

Wish I knew you better to give you some better advice but what's worked for me is just taking it one day at a time and changing my mindset. I've learned that if I give in to those feeling it only makes them more powerful. Just take a moment and breathe and try to find ways to enjoy simple parts of your day/evening.

Also - smoke a ton of pot and listen to some Beatles haha

Be easy bro - everything will be alright in the end

 

thank you, man. means a lot

 

This girl that works mornings at my new work, I just can't with her. She's rude in how she speaks to me and my other co worker and it's so belittling. I just bite my tongue and not say anything but I feel like I'm going to go off on her at some point. She got mad about something and was "why didn't you guys do this I told you to do it" and we explained why and the girl thought it was an "excuse" yet the shift nurse said it was ok for the alternative solution (and we even told our manger who said it was fine). When the nurse said it was fine, then the girl got all nice -.- she even was blaming us for things that were night shifts responsibility

 

My heating/cooling unit in my room stopped working. Last time something broke it took them like a month to replace it. And that was just a microwave. Can't imagine how long it'll take for them to put a new more expensive unit in the wall if it needs to be replaced smh RIP me.

 

My boss is starting to get backhanded and talk spicy with me cus "I called out twice in 3 months" Oh god forbid such a thing happens! Especially when I've been called in and covered for literally EVERY OTHER worker you have in that same time frame infinitely more times than... 2 - hes been doing this ever since he tried to call me to come in on a day (which was ironically a few days after I called abiout needing a day and he guilted me into coming [where he got the 2 from], which i did) and I was out an hour away with my girl who was kicked out atm.

Literally told him "Don't do me like that, I've covered for you, Lauren, and Cal (and hes new), you've shifted my schedule around every week, and I only actually stayed out one time (before this past sunday - so 2 all together)." Basically pulling his card cus I'm sorry, your assistant manager don't even do her job and never wants to work. I KNOW i'm your most reliable worker so you won't guilt or shame me. Sorry youre a manager at a shitty position, but I always been there, you can handle the rare cases I ain't without being an asshole.

And that's why he aint said shit since, cus he knew bite his tongue with me cus I know I been the MVP of this store.. I'm just not a douche enough to finesse that. But if you're gunna shit on me for needing a day here or there.... I gladly will, since you always whine how you can never find anyone reliable or anyone in general, anyway.

 

My friend would get shit from our old boss for calling out, yet she'd offer to come in on a day off, or try to come in later in the day if she was able to. Yet there was a girl who'd call out an average of once a WEEK and nothing happens to her. I got shit for saying no to working late (yet theres people that NEVER even once have stayed late, etc. I offered to come in early but "its not needed". I put in my two weeks 3 days later. Now at a new job where it seems like we're treated better (despite this girl that works mornings that I can't stand rn)

 

not sure if this is 100% the right thread but i am venting a frustration so w/e. my apartment complex is shitty. there's no way around it. but i've never felt unsafe there, just annoyed that i don't have a nicer living space. until now!!! monday night i was woken up out of a dead sleep by our neighbors below us having a loud and violent argument. i've heard them fighting before- it's been something that's been on my radar for a few months and i've held off on getting the office or police involved because sometimes that can make it worse for the person being abused. however, this time, the guy was definitely throwing things and at one point, i hear this girl scream like one of the things he'd thrown had hit her, really blood curdling and painful.

so at this point, i'm like, fuck, okay, i can't just not do anything, this is way beyond the rest of what i've heard before. so i called the cops, since it was like, midnight. i am shaking like a leaf. our buzzer has never worked since we moved in, so the dispatcher asked if i could go and prop the door open. terrified, i wake up my boyfriend and ask if he will go kick a rock in the outer door or something. he takes it upon himself to kind of just wait around outside till the cops show and then let them in. i'm upstairs crying because they're still fighting and i'm so scared the cops won't be there before something really bad happens.

unfortunately, the cops have them both come outside, where they both see my boyfriend. he gives a statement, because the guy in the couple was trying to tell the cops they NEVER fight and that the girl is making it up that he hit her. so now this guy knows that we live above him and called the cops on him. he's been doing passive aggressive shit ever since, like playing loud music, smoking weed in his bathroom so it filters into our bathroom through the vents, slamming his door, the whole works. i also swore i heard him leave his apartment, walk up the stairs to ours, and then go back down and into his yesterday, but idk. he also apparently gave my boyfriend a stare down the entire time he was walking from his car to the outer door.

long story short, i'm freaked the fuck out. i'm using a different staircase to leave the building, i'm afraid he's going to start a confrontation. we spoke with the office yesterday and they were quite sympathetic, offering to let us internally transfer to another building if there's an availability or even to another one of their properties (which is my preference). I'm just really scared something will happen before the can get the ball rolling on it.

 

I'm so sick of people. I hate all my friends in real life but one or two, I am starting to not like most of my online friends or want anything to do with them, and I used to love meeting and interacting with strangers but I can't remember the last good interaction I had with one. people are the worst. fuck em

 

sorry to hear T. I’ve been considering taking an internet break soon after everything that’s been going on. Love you buddy and hope you get some positive experiences back in your life