(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 450

I think that's a good approach. I say staying honest to your feelings about her but respecting her space if she needs it is ideal, meaning let it known you like her and would like to still hang out but you are understanding of her situation.

 

The whole beginning process is a formula that I haven't quite solved

 

In person is a lot easier for me then online for me. Online feels so scripted.

 

If someone says they are a mess you definitely be patient or stay away all together. You don't wanna be with someone who is a mess

 

or say Baby I'll be your Bounty quicker thicker picker upper

 

Yikes.










She has a point tho.

 

Based on all this, my Tinder profile is far too long.

And my face too average.

 

Lol, I get relieved every time I swipe right and it's not a match cause I no longer have the pressure of starting a conversation.

 

Fuck I just accidentally super-liked someone

 

You're all making me wanna download Tinder again.

 

I've had better luck (read: more dates) on OkC. I also think it's a better app with more features

 

I have a Ghost Adventures reference in my profile and actually had a woman message me about it. probably the best Tinder message I've ever received. Too bad she's 35 with a 12 year old son.

 

Don't. It's bollocks.

 

Tinder is fun, but I don't get a lot of matches currently being trapped in the south. Whenever I visit up north things start poppin' off.

 

FTFY

 

I get plenty matches but don't usually message them, and a lot of the time if I do the conversation dies very quickly

 

last 24 hours been interesting.. randomly asked my girl an innocent question and didn't realize I was picking a scab over a wound much deeper so since calming her down and making it clear there was nothing negative in my intent asking and basically it opened her doors of repressed shit from childhood, self image shit, abandonment issues, former chubby girl that glo'd up into a bad bitch syndrome (as she called it), not feeling 'good enough,' etc.

I was surprised at first but actually glad this happened cus tbh a lot of the things she does that causes her, me, and us issues I know are so tied to her unspoken shit. Glad to finally crack that wall.

 

i should really start messaging more often.

 

I shouldn't focus so much energy on dating but I get excited and want to dive right into it. Not knowing when/if we'll hang out again is frustrating. Guess I could keep dating around but I don't want to.

 

doing a bio would be scary because I feel like there's nothing interesting about me, I also think it would be funny if when a date asks me to describe myself to just describe the plot to Pitch Perfect and see how long it takes them to realize

 

That's probably a great bit to try in your bio. If they get it, it's a match

 

If I ever have to do job interviews again in the future I'm going to start doing this (but with a different movie because that's your bit not mine)

 

Anyway I met Laura's parents last weekend and they don't hate me which is nice because that was my biggest fear

 

if they hated you they'd be real dummies, sorry Laura only calling them dummies hypothetically not in actuality

 

Their cats were not fond of me but they will learn to love me someday