(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 483

To those subscribed to my nightly TV drama, my fiancee and I are definitely done.

 

That really, really sucks, but it sounds like it'll be good for both of you.

 

Hopefully. I still love her, I want her to be happy. If she can't be happy with me, I guess I need to accept that and move on.

 

By the way, for those wondering the final straw for me was when she started accusing me of having sex with my ex when I'm working late. I've never cheated on and never would cheat on anyone. It kept getting more dramatic, and more dramatic.

 

Can't say I didn't try. Thank you all for all of your brutally honest takes, and advice. I'm going to take some time to myself and be single for a while.

 

Sorry to hear that. Sometimes it is best to walk away and reset. We're here if you need an ear.

 

Really sorry that it all played out this way. Chin up, from the sounds of it, you've done nothing wrong. It's time to take care of you and your son and be the best dude you can be.

 

I have no chill and expect the worst when talking to someone new. If we're not talking every day I feel like they're not interested. I know that's not true but I feel paranoid

 

I understand where you're coming from. That time when you first start talking to someone is exciting, it's exhilarating. I'm waiting anxiously for that next text. I understand you being paranoid if they're not the same.

 

I mean, obviously you can't be super clingy about it but I totally get you and I think that's pretty natural tbh. if you like someone why wouldn't you want to talk to them? people play too many games and that's why modern dating sucks. godspeed out there

 

Yeah I definitely give space especially if they're not super responsive. But if they don't text me randomly every day or two I get worried

In this case I should definitely not be, we have plans this weekend and she's told me a couple times that she likes me so it is probably just me being a worrier like always

 

If it helps it's hard to remember that other people have lives, as obvious as that sounds I think it helps to keep in mind personally

 

Yeah I try to keep that in mind, obviously I live on my phone as you can tell by my being here

 

Man, that's a really sad ending, but sounds totally understandable from what you've said.

The nasty, dirty, hateful part of me really hopes that you managed to work that whole "Well, I'll only get married once" bullshit into a terminal put down.

 

The nasty, dirty, hateful part of me died laughing at that.

I'm really sorry to hear about all that @truelovewaits, we're always here to talk to about anything you'd like

 

I'm too nice to say something like that

 

So, she's pregnant. Gave me a really sincere apology, said that she knows she's not thinking straight because of it.

She was waiting until she got out of the first trimester to tell me, because we've had miscarriages in the past.

 

My life is a movie

 

Ohhhhh mannn

 

So this isn't an ongoing trend with her? Bring unreasonably jealous and suspicious?

 

Not to this extent. Nothing other girlfriends in the past haven't said/done. It was extreme these past few days.

 

Should I be making my own thread at this point?

 

The truelovewaits story. I'd subscribe to that thread.

Being serious though, I hope things work out. Can't even imagine the amount of stress you're dealing with right now.

 

Definitely a lot of different emotions going around right now. Definitely need to see how the next few days go to see if her apology is sincere.