Mental Health Thread • Page 167

Fuck, man. Sorry to hear that. I can imagine how much that stings.

 

I'm sorry but also fuck them, if they don't want anything to do with you that's their problem you're cool

 

I legit feel empty inside. I’m drunk and I’m alone. I thought I would’ve had my daughter in my life for Christmas, didn’t happen so I just don’t give a shit tonight. Fuck this holiday

 

I’m sorry, Joe, you don’t deserve that.

 

No really. I'm serious. I'm one of those people everyone forgets. No one asks me to hangout or how I'm doing. No one even remembers minor details I tell them and I have to constantly repeat myself. When it was my birthday only one friend of mine that I haven't seen in maybe 6 months and my bf wished me a happy bday (not including some relatives). Like it would have been nice to get bday wishes since I'm going thru a rough patch. Everyone else seems to forget I exist

 

When's your birthday?

 

Hey all, i know the holidays can be rough for a lot of people out there including some of you, but just know I’m wishing all of you all the best things in life and I hope you all have a better 2018. We’re all in this together. Merry Christmas, Happy Hannukah, Joyus Kwanzaah, happy holidays, etc.

 

I’m so sorry that happened to you. I wish you the best, I can’t imagine how hard it is to recover from something like that. Merry Christmas

 

Just want to wish everyone in this thread a very merry Christmas

 

Everything is just bothering me and making me anxious :( I feel alone

 

You’re not alone, my friend. I’ve been there too. I know it’s a lot and it’s hard to see the end but you’ll get through it. Don’t hesitate to reach out if you need to talk.

 

Will be here all day if anyone wants to yell into the wind at a birdperson

think of it as like post secret except it's just going to my inbox, and i can reply if you want or you can just let it go

 

Honestly I feel this a lot too. I've never been a big presence. When I was younger teachers used to mark me absent cause they didn't realize I was there. I've literally had people sit on me before thinking the seat was empty lmao. One time we had a big table at a restaurant and the server asked everyone if they wanted free dessert but me lol. Things like that seem to happen to me often. Nobody ever remembers my birthday or really asks how I'm doing. It is frustrating, espesh when it feels like u care or put more effort in than others. I have had to just distance myself honestly. Probably not the best tactic but I've tried to distance myself from those who seem to care less and I'm always open to ones who seem to prioritize me a bit more. Part of me tried to meet others where they're at and be like okay, people have a lot going on in their lives and tend to be self centered. It's not personal. But on the other hand I get annoyed because it doesn't take a lot of effort to reach out and care and it upsets me that so many don't bother. So basically... I feel you. It's probably not personal but I know that doesn't necessarily make it easier. We're all here and care about u if u ever need to be heard

 

This is how I felt about my (sadly ex-) fiancee that we still talk/try and sort through... but didn't see her for Christmas Eve, she worked today.... I took her to work and we started out mad and frustrated but before she went in she cried to me and we made out.... Helped a lot...
But as I'm sitting here my family is at my Grandma's house... can't be around them - cus of their racism leading to why my girl was kicked out, which lead to strain between us, which led to division and another getting involved....

Fuck this holiday is putting it nicely. I've been saying fuck everyone and thing for weeks outside those who walk with me for a reason.

Sorry yours is so rough, hope you get some sort of positive out of it all. Happy (as possible) Holidays, my friend.

 

When is your birthday?

 

August, long way away!

 

well aug 1 is in my calendar and you will for sure get one hbd



i really do see all of you. you inspire me. i mean it.

 

Thanks, guys. Today has been a little easier but it still hurts on a level that I’m not spending this day with my daughter. I promise myself that next year today, she’ll be here

 

Haha thanx. It doesn't bother me as much anymore. Apart from ppl just not caring enough I think it's also just pains of a summer birthday cause everyone is always away on vacation. #SummerBirthdayProblems #MiddleChildSyndrome

 

my girlfriend is a middle child so i sorta get that. it's made slightly worse because her older sister and younger brother are bffs.

 

Oh yeah that would def be tough if someone feels like the odd person out. Me and my sisters are all pretty close luckily but even then I think it's easy for feelings to get hurt if two of us do something without the other or vice versa. Smh @ odd numbers!!

 

August birthday best birthday facts

 

I feel like I remember ours being pretty close together!

 

It was earlier this month

 

well, happy belated birthday, ms. san diego. and you are penciled in for dec 1 2018

whether you celebrate christmas or not, i hope you've had some cheer on this monday