(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 414

yes sir

 

yes sir

 

Old-ish post but I think about that alot and it terrifies me. I know I'd blame myself, especially if my partner didn't share those struggles.

 

Is that what they're calling it these days?

 

I swear I spend all my free time cleaning my apartment. And fuck, like it's not even that clean.

 

@Dirty Sanchez

 

So I didn't hang out with that guy this weekend. I had invited him to a group game night hosted by my friend who he barely knows, but he messaged me the night of and said that he had made a mistake and already had plans. We were supposed to have a group brunch the next morning and he was going to go until my friend cancelled it. He never read the message I sent saying that we should do something anyways. I tried making plans with him last week for this Thursday and he said he'd keep me posted. Nothing mentioned about it since.

Should I be up front and say "Hey, dude, I like you and I'd like to get to know you better. If you want to just be friends, that's cool too"? It seems like he thinks I'm just inviting him to stuff I'd do with friends. Idk.

 

I clicked an older page by mistake, thought they were new posts lol.

 

I do the same thing from time to time just to keep people on their toes.

 

That's bold and brave. If I was interested in someone i'd love to hear that from them. It would make me drop my defenses and let them in 100. If I wasn't interested in them it would simply stroke my ego and do nothing else. What I mean by that is, if he likes you and you're sure about that then perfect, say it! If he's not into you then don't put yourself out there.

 

That's fair. I mean, my friends think he likes me based on interactions they've seen with us, but idk. Sometimes it feels like he's just being nice.

 

Have you tried inviting him to something one on one? That would probably make your intent clear without having to directly say it.

 

Yup. He said he would keep me posted on the timing and we haven't really discussed it since.

I'm going to see if I can run into him after work, but I think I'm trying too hard or something. I hate not having an answer, though.

 

Kids BLOWING UP MY SPOT! We had a super cute waiter and the kid at our table kept asking me if I thought he looked strong, in front of him, and I was like omg hush! And then later on in front of cute waiter the kid felt the need to tell me I had a booger in my nose lmao. Ruining my already negative game.

 

My girlfriend and I are luckily pretty cleanliness balanced. She's definitely more messy than me, but I'm also kind of a neat freak. My ex was horrendous, it was like a damn hurricane everywhere he went and he never helped clean. Super infuriating. My girlfriend makes dinner 90% of the time too, so I don't mind pulling some extra weight cleaning wise. We have a roommate that is the wooooorst though, he's the slob of the group haha.

 

This is the nicest, most supportive thread so I really want to share this with everyone: my boyfriend will be here at the end of the year!! It's crazy being in a relationship with someone who lives on the other side of the world but all the effort and waiting has been so worth it. I can't believe it. He hasn't given a date yet but I'm losing it over him being here at the end of the year haha. I can't wait to share stories and photos with you all in a few months!

 

Ya know, sounds like you've done a fair amount to communicate your interest and the ball is really in his court now. I'd recommend to hang tight and try not to worry bout this dude for a bit.

If he doesn't end up doing anything I'd say he's either too timid to act or not interested. In which case, ya got nothing to lose and might as well be straight up and confess your crush.

Anyway, just my take! Could be wrong, but either way, good luck

 

I appreciate that. I think I'm going to wait a week or two and see what happens. I'm sure we'll run into each other and chat a bit in that time. *shrug*

 

Sometimes, when I'm in a good mood, I think maybe the girls I'm attracted to don't talk to me because they're massive introverts too. Then I laugh for about 30 minutes. And then I cry.

 

My dinner is tater tots and I'm eating them out of three different measuring cups because I used the 1 cup one for cereal earlier.

 

Texting between dates is still a point of contention for me. I prefer daily conversations, so when the other person doesn't stay in contact I get minor anxiety

 

I'm trying to make plans but it's taking a while to get a response. Normally I'd think that means they're not interested but I'm pretty sure she is in this case. I think she's just not a big texter or something

 

I hope you're making plans through that work email chain you posted

 

Hell yeah

 

So long story short, I was hanging out with this girl from work who recently quit and I found out she was into me. We hung out a few times and have talked but I'm thinking I just don't think we're compatible in a relationship. But I do have fun hanging out with her and her friends.

Well, she just came back to work and quit her new job and idk how to address to her that I don't think I'm into her like that. It's making me so uncomfortable. Even worse - I think I have a mini-crush on her friend. This all seems bad haha