(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 387

Yeah, better a few hours before than after I get there. I'm still going and we'll see, maybe get a new friend out of it at least.

 

With benefits

 

I never had a FWB type situation but I remember a girl asking me if I wanted to but then I found out it was just to get me to tell her something I knew about one of our friends. High school

 

She canceled anyway time to drink copious amounts of alcohol

 

I'm sorry people in this thread are bitter about Tinder, I've met several cool people with the app in the past few months. Benefit of living in NYC is that you're bound to find someone who is down to hang out.

 

Working in NYC this has made me more bitter. Lol.

 

I had two dates with this girl that, honesty, went close to perfect in mind. It would have been difficult for me to imagine them going better. Kissed her on the second date and felt smonth af.

Then two days after that second date she texted me saying that she wasn't feeling it. Haha fml.

 

Brought my girlfriend to a party with two of my friends and a lot of acquaintances and she was such a boss. I legit want her to meet everyone I've ever known so I can brag about her and show her off.

 

sorry, man just keep your head up and another will come along, don't worry

 

Drinking some Buds, taking some JD shots, and playing Jenga by candlelight..I'm ready for a proposal. For real tho, I felt comfortable with him right off the bat which doesn't happen often for me.

 

But, that budweiser though.

 

I know. I was like I can't even remember the last time I drank bud or saw someone drinking bud lol

 

I feel like I inhabit a weird space between really appreciating and enjoying craft beer but also being just fine with some Bud heavy or PBR. I don't drink a lot these days so a lot of "good" beers will mess me up after like 2 or 3 haha. Shit beer is way better from a social standpoint for that alone, especially when I know I'm going to be drinking for a few hours around people I don't know and need to keep it together lol

Sorry, I know this isn't the beer thread

 

Then don't drink the shit beer, and drink something non-alcoholic. But, yes, not the beer thread.

 

Very true, that's always an option. I'm pretty consistently a water person, actually. But I mean, sometimes you have to loosen up a bit and if drinking a Bud or two does it best then I say go for it! It's all about what works for you.

 

i'm 5 deep on my lagunitas and I feel ok. Not really proud of it. there was a time where I could drink two ipas and feel super buzzed.
super glad you found someone cool @AelNire. Hope everything works out!

 

Had this experience a few times. Know a few guys who have. Struggling to think of any women who have had that happen to them though. Difference in the wiring? Any of the women want to speak up and disprove that? I'm intrigued.

 

That's a very attractive hand.

 

so i just got my heartbroken again and I have no idea what to do anymore.
like i even gave my last ditch effort for life in an investment to her and i find some shit out and i'm just lost atm.

 

What's going on bb

 

I'm trying to find a balance of what I wanna put out there vs. what is actually gonna come of what truly happened (Since I'm not really sure myself yet), but leave it at someone always cares more in a relationship, more honest, faithful. And I'm tired of being that person and being left in the cold.

 

I'm sorry. It sucks to feel like ur putting in more effort or care more. Whatever happens you deserve to feel just as loved and respected as what you put out there!

 

I'm just happy my girlfriend tolerates me drinking on the couch and yelling at the TV despite not drinking for 2 years herself. She's a saint.

 

Took the advice of you fine people and talked to my boyfriend about opening up our relationship. He is actually as cool with it as he said he would be, which is a YUUUGE relief. Going to have coffee with a guy I've been interested in this weekend, and my boyfriend just created a Tinder account. Polyamory FTW.

 

She's visiting from Sweden I don't feel bad about showing her name. BYE THO.