(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 385

I don't have many guys interested in me. They only interested in sex. Plus I haven't had many "crushes" I crushed on the same guy throughout elementary school, a different one guy through middle school, one guy half of high school and my 4th year of college I pretty much fell head over heels with this one dude until he shattered my heart. And that's about it for legit crushes.

 

ended up seeing a girl at a party (and I saw her at a halloween party at the same house and non-seriously thought about what I'd do if she was there again saturday night) that things ended (mutually) badly with freshman year and we've been texting a bit and I don't wanna get my hopes up but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

This girl is speaking for me right now lol

 

AMEN BROTHER

 

Hey, thanks, man. That's good advice and I'm going to find some time this week to talk to my boyfriend about potentially opening up our relationship.

 

So I just checked out my ex's tumblr (she doesn't know I know her url) and I just found out she's seeing someone already. It's been like a month and we said we might try and work on things. 7 fucking years. I feel numb.

 

I'm so sorry :/ my ex ended up with someone about six months after our break up and now i just hate him and couldn't care less what happens to him or his friends so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯. eventually i learned to not care about people who don't care about me. and also to try to stay away from looking at social media. it's a bad habit, but over time you gotta kick it. i do understand the urge though, believe me.

 

don't do that. it's an addictive and obsessive habit. focus on you, do things that make you happy, and do your best

 

I remember feeling like I needed a new gf right after my breakup. Never works out and I ended up hurting a couple people. I really didn't know better. But honestly it's the best time to focus on you and rediscover yourself

 

Also I am dumb and downloaded tinder again, but i like the conversation and attention

 

I don't think I've mentioned this before but I had a friend who talked about Omarion so much her dad thought that was her boyfriend's name for a short time.

 

lol why was she talking about Omarion so much?

 

because Omarion is fire in you got served

 

b2k!

 

for a second I was worried that you thought I didn't know b2k and I was mad and disappointed

 

b2k was fire

 

I knew you would know. I threw it in there incase someone reading didn't know!

 

There are no conversations on Tinder.

Stop lying.

 

Sorry. "conversations"

 

Liar.

 

yeah :(

 

I had to drive to the city where I used to live with my ex in, and it was overwhelming. It was my first time back there since we broke up. I know I'm better off now, but it was emotionally draining.

 

Thanks for the all of the input, everybody. I really appreciate it and I know ya'll are right. So I've removed her from all of my social media, and that's felt kind of liberating. I'm still absolutely fuming that she moved on so fast, after 7 years together. Especially after we talked about trying to work things out. I know she had every right to move on in any way she wanted, but damn does it fucking sting. I'm also super bitter about the decisions she made that led to our break up.

 

good deal. we're all here for you and cheering for you.

 

tinders an absolute nightmare but @ChaseTx...i saw you on there on it the other day and i forgot to mention it......sorry i didnt swipe, pal. i heard about pencils being in your butt so i can't oblige myself to that.