General Forum Chat Thread (II) [ARCHIVED] • Page 20

@xkhiemster is talking about the video game blog I tried to start.

So I'm a failure haha

 

I'd like to get married and have kids someday, but I also haven't dated or wanted to in about 6 years and feel alright with that. It'll happen when it happens, lol.

As for sleep schedules, I'm very hit and miss, lol. Sometimes I give myself a good night's sleep, and sometimes I float on the Internet on nothing and then get an unjustified 5-hr night before work or something. I've gotten better, but I still occasionally stay up late just 'cause I have no momentum to get up and go to bed.

 

I don't see how anyone functions with a migraine. I have a regular headache and can barely handle it,

 

Just don't get married young/ish because you think it's what you're supposed to do. Instead get a cat that cuddles in your sweat shirt.

 

Advil or an ice pack works for me

 

Watching Force Awakens on Blu Ray is so damn rad. This was a great choice.

 

Was on set for 10.5 hours to work 30 minutes. Love it.

 

That's always the worst. What do you do?

 

Oh lol now I feel bad

 

I'm an extra for TV shows/movies/commercials/web series/etc. I joke around and call myself a professional extra

 

Oh word, nice. I did plenty of 10-hour do-nothing days as a PA/runner on sets that didn't need me at all. But there are worse things than getting paid to hang out and eat crafty all day.

 

I think I'm feeling a bit ill :(

 

It is too early. RIP Dustin "Tableflip" Harkins 1991-2016

 

As far as the married/children thing goes, I constantly feel like a failure because I have children without being married. It sucks going places with them and having people condescendingly making comments to me about it being "my weekend" as if I'm only with them because I'm forced at gunpoint or something. I love being a dad, wouldn't trade it for the world. Just sick of the outside view of it because none of those morons know what I've been through or what their mother has been through.

 

Marriage works if a) you sleep in separate bedrooms and b)there's no forced monogamy. Anyway, I'm engaged. I may not be for much longer, depending on how our counseling goes. We both do not want children, so that works out well.

 

I dare seriously but nothing ever works out long term, so marriage seems like a far off possibility for now

 

I want to have kids, but I also worry I'd be a terrible mom, but I also think I might die before I ever get to a place in my life where being a mom is a real option.

 

Separate bedrooms?

No way. I need to be spooned.

 

Can Sleeping Apart Help Your Relationship?

 

I'm still unsure about marriage. Definitely not ruling it out, but I haven't considered it with anyone I've dated so far. I do want kids, though.

 

I'm not happy to be awake. I was going to try to sleep in.

 

Honestly, when I thought about having kids, the fear that they'd be reactionary pieces of shit when they grew up was overwhelming. I would definitely have to disown them if that were the case.

 

I just got married a couple weeks ago. Honestly, it's impossible to come up with a hard and fast set of rules for a married couple. It depends on your personalities and how you interact with each other.

For us personally, we love the opportunity to end every night and start every morning right next to each other. It may be different for others.

 

I would recommend not having kids if you're not in a long term committed relationship with the other parent. Custody court and separate houses are terrible.

 

I'm undecided about kids.