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Accountability in Music • Page 693

Discussion in 'Music Forum' started by OhTheWater, Nov 14, 2017.

  1. phaynes12

    https://expertfrowner.bandcamp.com/ Prestigious

    their kid is literally six months old lol. what a scumbag.
     
  2. Jason

    Regular

    Don't really feel sorry for Michelle. How you get him is how you lose him.

    Her group was called The Wreckers for a reason.....
     
  3. JoshIsMediocre

    oklahoma's #1 dodge hornet guy Supporter

    That is a weird thing to say
     
  4. Jason Aug 12, 2022
    (Last edited: Aug 12, 2022)
    Jason

    Regular

    Not really. A woman who has had no issue getting involved with married men is now upset someone got with her own husband. And you feel bad for them? Not me.
     
  5. blazer mclazer

    Newbie

    There’s no denying that infidelity is a shitty thing but does this really have anything to do with accountability in music? It feels more like a gossip thread if we’re just chatting about infidelity.
     
  6. Zilla

    Trusted Supporter

    Absolute weirdo comment.
     
  7. Meghin

    Uhhhhhhhhhh... Supporter

    Gross comment, gross way to frame things, let's not pit women against women or blame women for things, mmmkay?
     
  8. Atticus5143

    Trusted

    Really don’t see how infidelity is an accountability issue. Shitty thing to do, but I feel like that’s a private matter between the two parties involved. I 100% have sympathy though, especially with children involved.
     
  9. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    run away with me Platinum

    yeah wasn't 100% sure I can delete
     
  10. Penlab

    Prestigious Supporter

    I don't want to make this a thing, here, in this thread, but I feel like we can just not talk about the topic anymore instead of deleting posts and disrupting the conversation that already exists. Just grinds my gears a little when people do that.
     
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  11. trevorshmevor Aug 12, 2022
    (Last edited: Aug 12, 2022)
    Kinda paraphrasing here, but @Anna Acosta has definitely pointed out here in more detailed terms that serial cheaters are unequivocally abusers. Maybe a first time offense doesn’t need a full page of pile ons or demand for accountability, but I don’t think it’s a bad thing to drop cheating related news in here when it appears to be concrete and not just rumors. It’s a potential symptom of a bigger issue
     
  12. CarpetElf

    douglas Prestigious

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  13. heartchapel

    Regular

    Do you or anyone else have a link to that so I don't have to sift through 700 pages to find it? Anna is pretty good at taking something like this or where people say "equal RiGhTs AnD LeFtS" and really laying it all out, so I'm interested I seeing her comments on it.
     
  14. I don’t atm, but if you tap the little box on the top right corner an advanced search for her name with the keyword “cheating” it’ll at least give you a little less to thumb thru!
     
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  15. Patrick cheated on his previous wives as well, if I recall correctly.
     
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  16. fbrrocks

    Trusted

    Yep fuck him
     
  17. irthesteve

    formerly irthesteve Prestigious

    Yes it absolutely deserves to be part of this thread
     
  18. CarpetElf

    douglas Prestigious

    begging ya'll to read before posting
     
  19. irthesteve

    formerly irthesteve Prestigious

    Worse things have happened than a double post, we'll get through this together
     
  20. CarpetElf

    douglas Prestigious

    I meant read what you're posting haha
     
  21. Kiana

    Goddamn, man child Prestigious

    I think there's also a wider discussion on men who cheat on their partners who've like just given birth recently. Like obv cheating is awful regardless and serial cheaters are scummy but I feel like it's not uncommon for men to cheat while their partner is home taking care of their baby. I have heard too many stories of women panicking because their husbands are upset that they're not ready to have sex after giving birth. Like not only are women in physical pain and it's advised not to right away by their doctor, but women are often exhausted from recovering and raising the baby. I have never given birth but I had a female friend give me a lot of insight on her sort of body dysmorphia after giving birth and not feeling like herself after and she needed like a year before feeling like her body belonged to her again. I can't imagine going thru that and finding out your partner is out cheating. Like an extra level of psychological devestation.
     
  22. phaynes12

    https://expertfrowner.bandcamp.com/ Prestigious

    im devoting my life to Burying Pat Carney
     
  23. Jason

    Regular

    I didn't pit anyone against anyone. I simply pointed out someone's hypocrisy.
     
  24. Penlab

    Prestigious Supporter

    I mean, unless you have a personal stake, I don't know why you'd even bring it up. It just seems callous and hateful.