(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 251

I can't tell if you're responding to me or Chase but if you're responding to me I'm currently practicing zerogamy

 

It was a genuine question.

 

I gotcha. Yeah I mean I've considered polygamy...but at this point I don't even have my grasp on monogamy quite right so I don't think I could handle polygamy haha.

It's interesting to think about, and I understand the merits of both. I'm just not sure what I as a person can emotionally handle. I think I probably have a lot I need to work out in my own mind before I consider either honestly.

 

I was going to say I thought he was in Texas not dating territory but you may have beat me at my own game

 

No.

Love = Monogamy.

 

Love = myself

 

Love = building on fire

 

I focus on one partner at a time, even if early in the relationship I should be dating around. It's just easier for me that way I guess

I like this better than the other post

 

You just want me alone to have me all to yourself

 

zerogamy is the best word

 

Zergamy.

I only breed via spawning pools and hatcheries.

 

I also have zero game

 

Yeah, I don't think I could handle dating multiple girls.
I'm pretty picky, so I tend to only date girls I actually feel some kind of connection with, so I always just focus on one at a time.

 

dating is the worst.

 

dating sucks. relationships suck. being alone sucks. everything just sucks dude.

 

I wish I knew how to broach the "what are we?" discussion without being a cliche

 

Yeah, I'm getting to that stage where I want to bring it up, but I also don't want to be too early with it and scare the girl off.
Dating sucks. Relationships are great.

 

Dating does suck.

me: hey, we should hang out sometime in the next week or so.
them: yeah, I'd love to.
me: great! when are you free?
them: wednesday!
me and them: text text text for a few days
=Tuesday afternoon=
me: i'm looking forward to tomorrow, what time did you want to meet at X place?
them: ~silence~
me:

 

wait, this is an option?????

 

I can't figure the girl I'm dating out at all.
Every time we hang out, it's great. We get on well, laugh at each others jokes, make fun of each other, kiss, all great. She's always the one who suggests doing something again, and keeps mentioning events in the future that we should go to and what not.
When it comes to texting, it can be like a day or two before I hear anything back from her, and when I do, there's not too much to go on. Serious mixed signals.

 

Some people aren't great text conversationalists.

 

To be fair, some people are just shitty at texting. If you still see her regularly and it goes well when you do, I personally wouldn't get too psyched out about it. If you're waiting around and never seeing her because she doesn't text back, then that's a horse of a different color.

 

Yeah I'm aware, and she's an architect, so normally pretty busy. My imagination just runs wild sometimes. I need to calm down.