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Accountability in Music • Page 449

Discussion in 'Music Forum' started by OhTheWater, Nov 14, 2017.

  1. CarpetElf

    douglas Prestigious

    Destroy Boys being on that list is weird.
     
  2. GBlades

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  3. ItsAndrew

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    Especially if you’re not going to include other bands who have toured with sexual abusers after things came out about them (like Belmont touring with Tiny Moving Parts)
     
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  4. CarpetElf

    douglas Prestigious

    Absolutely. The only one called out for that being a teenage girl is definitely a weird look.
     
  5. Philll

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    What a fucking depressing list.
     
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  6. US Camera

    A Humble Snail Prestigious

    Making a list of “cancelled” bands is a pretty weird and dehumanizing thing to do and really centers the people who committed abuse over the people who were abused
     
  7. OhTheWater

    Let it run Supporter

    Yeah, people asked for it to be in the OP so I had it in there for a while but never really felt right about it.
     
  8. Fletchaaa

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    Looks like they're going on an indefinite hiatus, also he responded
     
  9. Blink182Bouncer

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    Honestly-- it's always tempting to hypercriticize abusers, but this is the most honest, least defensive statement I've ever read. It's not my place to forgive him, but I'm glad he owned up to it publicly.
     
  10. fbrrocks

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    Looks like there’s another story about Brent idk if she’s going to post it or not
     

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  11. Fletchaaa

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    Yeah apparently multiple other women have reached out to her with similar stories, hardly ever seems to be an isolated incident in these cases
     
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  12. fbrrocks

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    One of my fb friends told me this on Brent
    yeah i just saw something on twitter about him going into the coheed groups and looking for girls to sleep with while he was on tour. not a good look for sure. dude's a fuckwad.
     
  13. Yellowcard2006

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    The fact that it's "only ever been about the music" rings hollow when you have evidence he consistently used touring as a chance to take advantage of fans.
     
  14. atlas

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    she's had some more to say about his "apology"

     
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  15. Yeah, that statement feels very much like a hard attempt to say “I believe women but I also didn’t do this”. If you can recount events from the evening and even recount reasons why you MAY have done what she says you did, just fucking own up to it. Anything else is clearly denial
     
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  16. VanMastaIteHab

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    Think this is a good point
     
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  17. Philll

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    So UK rapper Wiley has been on a huge antisemitic rant on twitter for hours now and the site has yet to suspend him... not gonna link anything here but if you feel like reporting some tweets then have at it.
     
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  18. RyanPm40

    The Torment of Existence Supporter

    Yeah someone mentioned that to the poster and they said something like "it's all in the Google doc, decide for yourself", and like ... expecting people to search through your twitter history to find a random Google doc for people to realize they've been misled seems.. disingenuous to me? But I'm a white male, so I can't pretend like my opinion is more important than someone who experiences this kinda thing

    (I've never even heard of this band tbf)
     
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  19. phaynes12

    https://expertfrowner.bandcamp.com/ Prestigious

    deleting the albums, thanks!
     
  20. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    run away with me Platinum

    Problematic as a catchall term is super ineffective but I don't have a good alternative
     
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  21. Donnie Ruth

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  22. maryp1603

    Hey. Supporter

     
  23. genderqueergorehound

    a literal succubitch

  24. TerrancePryor

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