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Feels like you just want an argument

 

Kim can say Kanye new album out next week and the whole world will believe her and not Kanye

 

I don’t want an argument I’m just explaining why I believe the comment annoyed @Kate, which you literally asked to be explained.
Listen I just don’t have the patience really to explain to you that a Madonna whore complex is WIDELY used to criticize Kim kardashian and lift up women like Marilyn Monroe. There’s lots of history to unpack in your statements that you think are “simply about preference”

no ones telling you who to like. But people have every right to be sus af about your opinions bc they sound super familiar to misogynistic discourse we hear all. the. time.

 

Be sus all you want. Don’t make you right. I don’t like Kim Kardashian. Please don’t attempt to patronise me by implying anything further. I don’t ‘think’ my statements are about preference - they just are.

I’m not gonna sit and argue the toss over whether my preferences are down to misogyny or something because I’m aware of who I am and how I feel. I don’t have to explain that to you. Jesus wept.

 

okay. Opinions like the ones you’re stating sound a lot to me like loosely veiled misogynistic comments and it’s annoying. The end.

 

She was trained and marketed to keep your attention etc....so I don't know how to feel about someone saying they think they're in love with her. Can you see how that would be offensive to me as a woman?

 

I didn't mean to start a fight it's just something you should be more aware of.

 

Does that very sentiment not undermine women itself though? I don’t think that everything people admired about her is down to back room training and marketing.

 

And can we not be so literal about someone saying they’re in love with a dead celebrity from years before his time like come on

 

Imo the original comment just really reeked of that “they just don’t make women like the 50s anymore!” And it’s like .........

if that’s not how it’s intended, it still comes across that way bc of how often that line of discourse is used especially when juxtaposing it with a modern day “sex symbol”

 

U don't get it and I'm going to bed.

 

Okay, I can appreciate that’s how you’ve interpreted it, but it isn’t how it was intended, and you being condescending about it won’t change that. I haven’t made any reference in the SLIGHTEST to either women’s appearance or status as a sex symbol.

 

Ummmmm it would be nice if we could have other males perspective of this????

 

& womens' obv

 

I have had too many people ask me about that hot cheeto burrito and I’m worried

 

Lmao why else would you have even mentioned Kim at all? Bc she’s comparable as a sex symbol status there’s literally no other reason. You knew they were comparable in that regard otherwise you would not have brought her up?!

Like I’ve already basically said this also has a lot more to do with the fact that your comments and preferences don’t exist in a vacuum there is already a lot of misogynistic cultural discourse specifically surrounding comparing these two women so of course anything you say is going to carry the weight of that context??

 

I’m just gonna stop you there because frankly it’s coming across as bully tactics now. I appreciate you both interpreted it that way and can acknowledge that stigma, but I don’t appreciate the implication here that I’m a part of it.

 

What part of me explaining the greater implications and context of what you’re saying is bullying? Like are you serious right now???

 

NOT YOU.

 

Arguments and cobes saying thoughts out loud. Interesting.

 

Calling on everybody else doesn’t change my intentions

 

Ok well damn son that’s what the quote feature is for

 

You posted like the second before I did lmao

 

Me? I didn't mean it to seem that way.... I think it's good to have discourse about this between men and women?

 

I’m going through a part of Pokémon Sword where it’s just me grinding so all I’m looking at is social media to keep me preoccupied.