(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 1506

I’m gonna cancel this






JK

 

Better not hide in your office to avoid her, coward

 

Bro I’m not this time.

 

Ok

 

Make plans for next weekend and still in a bad mood smh.

 

Sorry I’ll let you come back in the fitness challenge

 

Guess who got talked into an all day first-time Harry Potter marathon this weekend

 

I hope you're suffering for a good cause.

 

Never really done this before but I feel like ranting. So I’m two months out of a 2 year relationship and finally starting to feel better. She dumped me. I felt idealized at the beginning of it all it was so intense and passionate I couldn’t resist. Not to mention I have never been so attracted to someone who was so interested in me. I also thought I was compatible with her in important ways. I made big decisions based on the prospect of being with this person like limiting how many schools I applied to just schools around my area. My family was concerned about me, people who knew her reached out to my mom to warn me. I refused to believe it and needed to see for myself and give her a chance. (Our relationship started in November 2016 which was of course a very hectic and tense time) I certainly was not perfect but I always felt like she was rushing to get married and share a life because she had been before. For the first 6 months of our relationship I felt like she really loved me and saw things in me that nobody else saw. She took me and my brother to see our mutual favorite band the 1975, she would make me things and do things for me that nobody had ever done for me. It all felt so meaningful and important. I had far less relationship experience and wanted to take it slower. I will admit I was hesitant to move in with her. I’m not sure if that would have helped or made things end sooner. Things didn’t work out for me in my personal life the way I planned (I didn’t get into medical school two years in a row and my life had more or less been in limbo as a result of the application process, it was really rough because it was a ton of work that felt like was in vain, however I’ve since changed plans) I became really depressed and relied on her for a lot of my self esteem. It gave her a lot of power over me. I was slowly devalued and eventually disposed of. I’m still sad about it but I’m getting to the point where it’s not constantly bringing me down. When she broke up with me she gave me a list of everything I ever did wrong in the relationship, all entirely out of context and a lot of it exaggerated. I took it really hard and internalized all the stress. I had shingles!!! For three weeks! I’m only 27 so my doctor believes it was from internalizing the stress. I couldn’t understand how I could be so able to overlook her flaws and see the good in her while it felt like she focused on the flaws of me and everyone else in her life while overlooking the good. She was always a victim and I felt a ton of sympathy for her because I have been fortunate enough to live a fairly trauma free life. She was not as fortunate as me and I wanted to elevate her. It was difficult but it was my first real adult relationship. I loved her so much and tried to make it work but she had a lot of baggage and past trauma that I really didn’t have to ability to alleviate as much as I didn’t want to admit it. She was also 5 years older and has two kids with two different dads. I did my best to understand her situation and be helpful. I really loved her kids too and that’s been really difficult. I’ve realized that everyone in her past was an enemy of hers or screwed her over in some way even a lot of her family. I did mental gymnastics to try and justify everything and understand how she ended up in her current situation. Ultimately I still look back on our time together as positive and really do see the good in her. I grew and learned so much. She told me she should have broken up with me sooner but the sex was so good that it altered her ability to “do what was right”. She also told me that she wanted to have my babies within the same week of breaking up with me. It really fucked with my head. I guess I need to type things out to realize what was going on. Emotionally I was all in. Logically it really didn’t make sense. I still think about her all the time and hope that changes but I am starting to understand that we were never meant to be.

 

invited tinder lady to come over to our place back in feb. she did. my partner was cool with meeting her. she had way more in common with him than me. a group chat and a couple months later, we're going on dates n shit. thats how i accidentally got into a thrupple

 

got fucked up last night to a degree that I have not in awhile. I was absolutely gone but I remember dancing at the bar with this hella pretty mom, probably in her 40s and I was like aight we’re dancing, her arm is on my shoulder, we goin somewhere. THEN SHE STARTS TALKING ABOUT HER HUSBAND. Killin me, man.

 

@dylan

 

i don't see the problem here

 

I’m not a sinner

 

Shut up Cam!

 

is this a minus the bear song

 

coward

 

I am a sinner

 

me and co-worker who I have a crush on were considering adding me on her Snapchat and changing her name to a female name because her boyfriend is crazy and snoops on all her social media.

I AM SINNER

 

nah

 

we know man

what’s your favorite spidey rule 34

 

I just found some tight Peter Porker shit, Cobra

 

go away

go away x2