(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 1495

that’s the route i’ve been considering. I just don’t want to seem like I’m bitter and cutting her out because of that.

 

I did a triple take at the username after reading the post.

 

That's fair, that's why you make sure you are polite in doing it, you are absolutely entitled to do it. Maybe she won't react well, that doesn't matter, if she doesn't its because of reasons @Mr. Serotonin just mentioned. If she's a half decent human being (im sure she is) she will understand and be civil. If she doesn't understand good riddance bro.

 

yeah, I think she was trying to let me down easy but that’s the part that hurts the most.

 

One of my biggest regrets when I was younger (about 10 years ago - when I was 23) was spending almost a year of my life trying to hold onto a relationship that ended abruptly after four years of dating. I made myself miserable trying to keep in contact, trying to hang out, trying to keep the relationship alive and although we would continue to talk and occasionally hang out, I would always eventually be let down and hurt again and just kept digging myself deeper and deeper into a hole.

Don't do that to yourself. Move on, stop communicating, block social media accounts if you have to. Don't put your life on hold. All things I wish I had done ASAP following the break-up.

I know it's easier said than done, but it's the truth.

 

Yeah it is way easier said than done but it is so fuckin liberating to do. Just gotta take it a day at a time, I feel like having a friend know about it and holding you accountable to it also helps alot.

 

This sounds agonisingly familiar.

 

*pointedly refuses to make eye contact with anyone in here*

 

Got a match on Bumble like 15 minutes after I made my profile. And now of course she isn’t messaging me lol.

 

This is where I struggle, although I feel my situation is a bit more complicated since a 3 year-old is involved. I am infatuated with my ex-wife. Like head over heals, intense lust, the whole nine yards. We've had chemistry since we were 13 years old (in middle school) and now we're 32 and I'm just as giddy when I see her as I was when I was a horny kid. I want to stop communicating, and block social media, and move on, but with my kid, it's hard. She posts videos on her IG stories of him doing some amazing, funny, adorable things. How could I give that up?

 

Yeah, if kids are involved it’s a whole other ballgame. Obviously, communication must continue in some aspect for several reasons.

 

Just matched with a brewer at one of my favorite local breweries, let’s see how this goes

 

she finally replied, not the responses I had been hoping for (obviously), but it helped ease my mind a ton to actually hear her say she doesn’t see us back together.

thanks for all the encouragement and reassurance in here.

still gotta decide if my heart can take going to the show knowing she’ll also be there.

 

Wow

-4 for not being a student??

 

That’s inland empire bingo for girls on tinder sans the “overly attached to my horse “ freebie

 

Guy freebie is “overly attached to my modded car”

 

Christian Mom texted me asking if I wanna “schedule a call”

Wat.

 

Damn, pretty forward!

 

I hope you said yes!

 

how the fuck does one be "professional and ratchet" simultaneously?

 

I didn’t say anything.

 

bad dog