(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 1460

I also think I have two dates with two different women in the next week and I’m stressed but excited

 

You've got this bud! I hope you have a fun time and enjoy yourself!

 

good luck man!!!!

 

Thank you! Just going to take it easy and see where things go. Happy I’m putting myself out there at least!

 

I mean at least she likes me right?? (She called me out on it and I no longer do it)

 

Ok I have evolved into wanting someone to do things with where we take cute pictures together and then part ways until the next trip/photo shoot. I think this is growth?

 

There's definitely a market for a platonic hookup site if it doesn't exist already

 

isn't that just bumble bff?

 

call it The Big Hang Theory

 

Cups

 

Amazing.

 

I thought that might exist, I know there's also meetup but that's kinda different I think

 

my gf uses bumble bff and has met a few drinking buddies through that. nothing seems to stick though if you're thinking of long term friends

making friends as an adult sucks

 

pretty sure there's a site called Adult Friend Finder out there, might help

 

I find lots of things on there, but friends ain’t one of em.

 

Honestly it sounds like you’re describing seeking arrangements @Kiana

 

Yeah I tried Bumble bff and I didn’t find shit, also just about everyone had a blank profile so I didn’t really try too hard. Been having very good luck meeting people at shows lately! More DIY kind of things, but if you know one person they’ll introduce you to someone else and on and on and on

 

Talking to people sounds terrible I just wanna skip forward to already knowing someone and taking cute pictures and look at each other like we care with cute eyes but also not having to commit because I have issues. Is that too much to ask tho???? Heavy sigh lol.

 

What is the pure version of Craigslist bc I’m pretty sure kiana can find what she’s looking for there

 

I’m being serious when I say seeking arrangements. It’s technically a sugar daddy/sugar baby site but my friend met her current bf on there and had a lot of fun before that.
She went on paid vacations and went out to eat at nice restaurants and that’s basically it.
Also, there’s money in it so. Win/win.

 

Does that not involve more than platonic interactions? I guess I thought that meant something else

 

I thought so too lol but apparently not
(Also just based on the context I can assure she wasn’t like ‘hiding’ that aspect)
Like once you have something with someone then there are probably expectations or it happens naturally but there are plenty of people just looking for a good looking date to take out to a nice restaurant or to a company party or something like that.

She once went to sea world with a guy because he was divorced and had his kids and the poor dude didn’t know how to interact with them without a ‘motherly’ presence so he paid for her separate hotel room and paid for everything just to have a buffer for him and his kids.


Let me just reiterate that men are wild and will pay for weird stuff.

 

Weird stuff, like women.

 

No, weird stuff like poop.

 

I’ve had some friends do some SA things and let me tell you I don’t think they met any candidates for a boyfriend but hey, what do I know?