(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 19

It sucks when something that seemed great at one point is reduced to that. Ah life. And yes, that does sound decidedly inconvenient. :P

 

Lol I mean, he was physically/emotionally abusive and stuff. There's a lot more to the story. But I was afraid to break up partly because I knew I couldn't cover the payments alone. =\ Guess that came off wrong!

 

It sounded like you were dragging out a relationship after you no longer had feelings just so you didn't have to pay as much for rent/utilities, hahah.

Although, if he was physically/emotionally abusive, fuck him. He deserves worse.

 

No you're totally right, it did sound that way. I wish that was the truth haha I mean I did drag it out for that reason but also because of other shitty reasons too.

 

So this went really well! We had originally only made dinner plans, but after that we ended up going to the Protomartyr show that was down the street. Never dated someone with similar taste in music before, but it would definitely be a nice bonus.

 

Nice! That sounds like a great evening. :)

Dude if you can find someone who is into your music that is a HUGE bonus. I cannot find aaaaanyone who is into what I like. They're all like "Brand New? Brand new what?" Ugh.

 

Seriously! I feel your pain, my last boyfriend didn't listen to any music with vocals because he found them "annoying and distracting". So strange.

 

Haha that IS strange. Like...I can get down to some Explosions in the Sky but not all the time!! My current bf is into classic rock and that's like it. Vomit.

 

I like music with no vocals SOMETIMES, but to strictly listen to that seems so strange. You're missing out on an entire dynamic that instruments alone can't capture....lyrics!

 

i'm surprised and also finding some comfort in all of you posting in this thread who are in the "broken up but living with an ex out of necessity at the moment" boat. seriously.

 

Got out of a long-term relationship earlier this year. We were living together and we both moved out. Luckily only had to pay one month of rent by myself before I got a sublet in and won't even end up losing much money for the remainder of the lease. Got my own place now and am actually enjoying my life again. Been checking out the Tinder scene again too which is interesting.

 

I've given up on finding love and i also hate boys

 

I told someone from Tinder that Brendon Urie sounds like a sheep and I think she's done texting me now

 

My last Tinder match was a bot.

 

I hate boys too. A man is so hard to find these days >.< hahah

 

I look like I'm 12. Boy4lyfe.

 

Boy problems, whose got em?

I don't.

 

That's what made me delete my account. Soooo many fake accounts and bots.

 

I feel like once I get back in shape I'll have a lot less anxiety and stress about dating and finding someone. I feel like a lot of my issues right now are stemmed from me really not liking my own body at all at the moment.

 

Same. I'm 26 but definitely don't look it. My brother once got carded for an R-Rated movie when he was 30 years old lol

 

I just went on my first date where I met someone through tinder. We went to see a movie and hang for a but after. I want to believe it went fine due to the fact she wants to hang out more.

She seems like a cool type of person to be friends with but I can't really see a relationship there.

 

I woke up to a message this morning which pretty much said "I like kissing you, but I think something is missing."

Great? Cheers for the critique alongside the knock back.

Today, I hate dating.

 

I was texting this dude from my Persian Language I class and we were talking about some random shit and like an hour later he asked me if I ever send nudes so I said no because well... I don't. He asked me if I could take some dick pics and send them to him and because I was an idiot who was thinking with my dick at the time and not my brain I agreed and did just that. He also said he wasn't gay but was just curious and wanted to see my dick basically. I don't know how I fell for that but after I sent the pictures to him, he was really chill about it and he complimented me and was hitting on me and it was going well but then because I'm a horny bastard I asked him if he could send any in return and he answered me by calling me homophobic slurs and just being a real fucking jerk to me.

Part of me is afraid to go back to class and see him again because I really fucking hate him now but at the same time I feel like if he were to apologize or give me another chance I'd say yes in a heartbeat, I don't know why I fucking like him so much he's a fucking piece of shit who makes me feel really insecure and awful about myself.

Anyway I feel like shit.

 

Anyway sorry if that post seemed long and unnecessary the whole thing just threw me off track and really upset me i'll shut up now

 

I guess... we're gonna stop talking...