(Reasons we're not having) Sex (and WoW) Thread NSFW • Page 163

I also believe something may have physically happened between them too, but I don't feel like pressing for information on that as she's quite reluctant to say, understandably.

 

I think she should write it down and give it to you so it's on record. Sadly, one of the issues if she decided to come out later, is that nobody will believe her since it happened so long ago. If she wrote a note, gave it to you (dated), it might hold up more if he were to go to trial for sexual assault.

 

I cannot even describe how hard this made me laugh

 

Every once in awhile maybe, but nope.... usually don't... not without some down time to recharge, and I've im doing anything sexual in intervals/rounds I ain't doing it alone, I have SOME self respect still (not much) at the end of the day lol.

 

Having sex twice in a short period of time is usually the best. Me and my ex did that a lot when we were teens lol.

Now I'm old and last much longer the first time around so it's not as needed. But there have been a few times my fiancé has wanted to go again and every time we've done that it's been fantastic.

I feel like doing yourself twice is something thats much easier for women than for men hah

 

Hmm. I went on a Tinder date and said no to sex tonight. The reaction was...less than desired. She was almost upset. We were messing around and she told me she doesn’t cum via penetration but through clitoral stimulation. I told her I have no qualms going down on her but that I would not be having sex tonight or anytime soon. She took it.....ok I guess, but she asked if I was gay, which i thought was a little odd. I told her no, but that I’m currently in a place where I’m not looking for sex. Cuddles, kisses, going down on her...A OK. But she wanted more and therefore would not come home with me, which I suppose I understand. It’s not that I didn’t want to have sex with her, I really do in theory, I just feel like I’m in a place right now where I can’t. She said she’ll text me, we’ll see. After hearing what I’m looking for she said, “...who are you???” which I feel was supposed to be complimentary but I’m not sure...

All in all, fun night tho. I hope to hang out with her again. Very easy to talk to, which is most important.

Lol, side note, she blamed most of me not having to have sex on the fact that I’m an Aquarius (I think astrology is BS) and i thought @Kingjohn_654 would enjoy that

Edit: just realized she left her jacket in my car, so I’ll have to see her again to some capacity

 

Sounds like she planned that

 

Planned what, exactly?

 

The jacket in your car. So she'd have to see you again

 

Lol seems you threw her for a loop going on a Tinder date and not slanging. But seems it went decently enough since she George Costanza'd your car lol. Good luck buddy.

 

Ahhh yeah. Well, she texted me on my way home and was like, “is my jacket in your car” and I was like, “oh shit, yeah, do you want me to drive back and give it to you now or some other day” and opted for the latter. But yeah, overall, there we have a good time and there’s definitely physical chemistry there, I just need to take it easy for awhile I think. That was one of my anxieties about meeting someone from Tinder, it’s just assumed you wanna bang.

 

Had a similar situation last week, but I'm not really into the person

currently trying to put together a text to tell her this but it's not easy lol

 

How many times have you hung out?

 

Once

But she's persistently texting even though my texts have all but stopped

 

Man life is truly different for straight girls...I’ve never been on a tinder date where sex was expected. Which is good because I’ve never dated a girl off tinder I wanted to sleep with. I’m also Aquarius though so what do I know? haha

 

the one time I was supposed to go on a tinder date I was stood up and ghosted

Still haven’t had any sort of luck after that either. Dating is fun

 

Have you tried OkC? That's where I had the most luck, and by luck I mean constantly going on dates with people who lost interest after a month or so

 

Or me losing interest, that was a factor too

 

I haven’t yet, I need to stop being lazy and make one already

 

We here in the thread can help...?

 

I've had zero luck on any dating app/site. I've only ever matched with two people on tinder and the conversations went nowhere.

Also I'm an aquarius.

 

what's the running gag with Aquarius'

 

Not the reaction I would expect at all. Although, I guess she would have been similarly surprised that a guy was offering everything but sex? Like, even cuddles? If someone cute offered me cuddles and no sex I'd take that all day long.

Maybe she now thinks you have a thunderous case of herpes?

 

what is astrology